Ukuthandana kwe-Intanethi, Ukungaxhatshazi kunye nokugula kwezifo zesondo
Abantu baseMerika basebenzisa amanqaku okuthandana kwi-intanethi kunye neenkqubo ngaphezu kweyiphi na iqela labantu. Kukho iitoni zezitifiketi zokuthandana kwi-intanethi kunye neefayili ngaphandle apho, kubandakanya iMatch.com, eHarmony, Tinder, kunye no-Adam4Adam. Isiza ngasinye sokuthandana sithatha iminqweno eyahlukileyo. Ngokomzekelo, iHarmony iyazibhokoxa ekumiseni uxhulumaniso lwexesha elide phakathi kwabasebenzisi; ngelixa, iTinder iyaziwa ngokuba yi-hook-up.
Ngaphezu koko, uAdam4Adam uyindawo yokuthandana nomntu ongowesini.
Abantu abaninzi banandipha ukuhlangana nabanye kwi-intanethi, kunye nokuthandana kwe-intanethi kubandakanya abantu abangenakuze bahlangane. Kukho amabali amaninzi abantu abadibana neqabane elizayo okanye ezinye ezibalulekileyo kwisayithi lokuthandana.
Nangona kunjalo, kukho uhlangothi olumnyama lokuthandana kwi-inthanethi: Iingcali ezininzi zixhala malunga nobungozi obuninzi bokuhlaselwa isifo soxhatshazwa ngesondo (i-STI) edibeneyo nokudibanisa i-online-up-up. Ezi nkxalabo zithethwa ngokukhethekileyo phakathi kwabantu abanobudlelwane bokulala abangenalutho kunye namanye amadoda angabalingani bokuqala-ukuziphatha okubizwa ngokuba "kungabikho nto." Enyanisweni, iingcali zibopha ukunyuka kwe-gonorrhea, i-chlamydia kunye ne-syphilis ngokukhawuleza ukuphakama kokungabikho. A
Iindawo zokuDlelana kwe-Intanethi zisebenza njani?
Abasebenzisi bokuqala basebenzise iphrofayili yomuntu siqu kwi-intanethi yokuthandana. Iphrofayli ye-intanethi ingaba nezinto ezilandelayo:
- ulwazi lwezentlalo
- okuthandayo
- ezingathandwa ngabanye
- umdla
- iintlobo zamaqabane afunayo
- iintlobo zobudlelwane obufunayo
- Ukwaziswa ngezesondo
- ukuthandwa ngokwesondo kunye nokungathandwa
Emva kokufunda iprofayili, abasebenzisi bangabonakalisa umdla omnye komnye-umzekelo, umsebenzisi unokuthi "swayipha ngakwesokudla" kwiTinder okanye "wink" kwiMatch.com. Ukuba umdla unxulumene, abasebenzisi bangakwazi ukuqhubela umyalezo ngomnye nomnye kwi-platform yokuthandana kwi-intanethi kwaye baqhubeke nobudlelwane be-intanethi okanye badibane kwihlabathi lenene.
Uhlobo lomsebenzisi
Iingcali zempilo yoluntu kunye neeklinikhi zixhalabele ngokukodwa ngesondo esingakhuselekanga kunye nokudluliselwa kwe-STI kubantu abasebenzisa ii-intanethi zokuzonwabisa kunye neenkqubo zokusebenza zesondo kuphela. Kucelwa uqonde ukuba ezi ngcali azixhalabanga kakhulu ngabantu abasebenzisa ezobuchwepheshe bezakhono zokuseka ubudlelwane obude bexesha elide.
I-Intanethi ingaba yindlela ekhawulezayo nefanelekileyo yokwenza. Ukuphanda kwangaphambili kusinika umfanekiso ocacileyo wabantu abasebenzisa ii-intanethi zokutshatyalaliswa ngokwesondo. Laba basebenzi bavame ukuba ngamadoda angama-gay abakhetha ukulala ngesondo nangomlomo. Baye banamathuba amaninzi abalingani bezocansi kubomi kunabantu abangasebenzisi i-Intanethi ukufuna isondo. Kuyathakazelisa ukuba abaninzi abantu abasebenzisa i-intanethi ngesondo bavele basebenzise iikhondom; Nangona kunjalo, inani elininzi alikhoyo, apho kukukhathazeka khona.
Ingqalelo, abafazi abasebenzisa iziza zokuthandana nge-intanethi ukusetha iibhanki zesini zithatha ukuba zimhlophe kwaye zikhulile. Basenokwenzeka ukuba basebenzise iikhondom kwaye bavavanye rhoqo kwi-STIs.
Iziphumo zophando
Iziphumo ezivela kwizifundo ezidibanisa ii-intanethi zokuhlala kunye nee-STI zixutywe. Ngaphezu koko, nangona le ngxaki ixhalabisa kakhulu phakathi kwabaninzi, akukho nzulu uphando malunga nesihloko.
Umbuzo omnye omkhulu ngokubhekiselele kumbutho kukuba ngaba abantu abathanda ukukhetha isondo esingakhuselekanga-ngokukodwa, ukulalana okungekho mthethweni okanye ukungaxilwanga-sebenzisa i-Intanethi ukufeza le mnqweno okanye ukuba iindawo zokuthandana nge-Intanethi zikhuthaze ngandlela-thile lo mkhuba.
Kwinqaku lokuphononongwa ngo-2008 elibizwa ngokuthi "Amadoda Alalana Nabesilisa Nabasetyhini Bomntu Olwabelana Ngezesondo kwi-Intanethi: Impembelelo ye-STI kunye ne-HIV Yokukhusela kunye neMfundo yabaxhasi," umlobi uChristopher W. Blackwell ucetyisa ukuba amadoda alala neendoda rhoqo asebenzisa i-intanethi ukuba kulula ukufumana amaqabane angabonakaliyo. Okumangalisa kukuba, abaninzi bala madoda bakhuthaza iindlela zokuziphatha zesondo ezikhuselekileyo kwiiprofayili zabo.
Umbhali uyaqhubeka ukubonisa ukuba enye indlela yokuphazamisa ukudibana okunjalo kukubandakanya izikhokelo zezempilo ezikhuselekileyo kwiqonga lomnxeba we-intanethi. Amanyathelo angenelelo angathatha ifom yokufikelela, ukuxoxa, ukuvakalisa izibhengezo kunye nokudala izitifiketi zemfundo ezongezelelweyo.
Iziphumo ezivela kwisifundo esikhulu saseDatshi esapapashwa ngo-2016 zibonisa ukuba phakathi kwabantu abalala ngesondo kunye namadoda, akukho mhlangano jikelele phakathi kokusetyenziswa kweendawo zokuthandana kwe-intanethi kunye nesondo esingavikelekanga. Ingqalelo, abathathi-nxaxheba kwisifundo baqeshwe kwiklinikhi ye-STI e-Amsterdam.
Kulo cwaningo lwesiDatshi, abaphandi bafumanisa ngokukodwa ukuba ukungabikho kombutho kwacaca kubantu abangenayo i-HIV. Phakathi kwamadoda anesifo se-HIV, kwakukho ubudlelwane obungabalulekanga phakathi kokuthandana kwe-Intanethi kunye nomntu ongathandanga ukulala. Ekugqibeleni, phakathi kwabantu abangaqinisekanga ngesimo sabo se-HIV-i-subset encinci yabathathi-nxaxheba-ukulalana kokungaxhatshazwayo kwesondo kwakuqhelekileyo nabanye badibanisa kwi-intanethi kunokuba bekunxulumene nobudlelwane bangaphandle.
Abaphandi baye bafumanisa ukuba i-concordance ye-HIV imeko yayiyi-predictor of sexual intercourse. Ngamanye amagama, abathathi-nxaxheba babeqaphele ukuba babeza kulala nomntu ongenalutho olukhuselekileyo kunye nabantu abane-HIV efanayo. Oku kwahlukileyo kubalulekile kuba iintlobo ezinokungaxhatshazwa kweziyobisi zingasasazeka phakathi kwabantu abane-HIV. Ngendlela ecacileyo, umntu onentsholongwane kaGawulayo onokunyangwa ngonyango lwe-antiretroviral angakwazi ukusuleleka ukuba ahlaselwe olunye uhlobo lwe-HIV olungagxininiswa kwilonyango olunjalo, ngoko ke ukukhangela isiphumo esibi kakhulu. Kubonakala ukuba, amadoda ekule sifundo ahlolisana ngokubhekiselele kulolu hlobo lwezityalo ezinokuthi zithwale (isenzo esibizwa ngokuba yi- serosorting ) ngaphambi kokuba singaboni.
Izizathu
Emva kwesifo se-AIDS sama-1980, amadoda amaninzi ayeka ukuhamba kwaye aqalisa ukusebenzisa iikhondom. Kutshanje, nangona kunjalo, lo mkhuba uphinde uphinde ukhutshwe ngokuphindaphindiweyo kumadoda amhlophe, abamnyama nabaseLatino abahlala kwisixeko saseNew York, eSan Francisco, eLos Angeles, eMiami nakwezinye iidolophu ezinkulu zase-US. Ukongezelela, amadoda aseminyaka ngoku anesondo esingavikelekanga, kuquka namadoda angama-middle-age ahlala kwi-AIDS epilisi kwaye asetyenzise iikhondom ixesha elide emva kobhubhane.
Mhlawumbi akukho sizathu esenza ukuba amadoda akhethe ukuba nomntu ongathandanga. Endaweni yoko, le ndlela iyanzima kwaye ibangelwa yimibandela.
- Amadoda ahlambulukileyo athola ukuba umkhwa uvuseleleka, uyonwabise kwaye usondelane.
- I-Intanethi yenze kube lula ukufumana amaqabane angabonakali kunye nabo abangenalo isondo esingavikelekanga. Kukho amaziko azinikezele ukufumana amaqabane angabonakaliyo, kwaye abasebenzisi banokukhetha abanye ngesimo se-HIV.
- Ukubuyiselwa kwakhona kungabonakalisa inkululeko yesondo, ukuvukela kunye nokuxhotyiswa.
- Amadoda abelana ngesondo kunye namadoda ayisaboni i-HIV njengesifo esibulalayo. Kunoko, bayibona njengonyango. Ngesongelo sokufa asisayi kuphakama, aba bantu abanokuba nexhala kakhulu malunga nomngcipheko wokusuleleka yi-HIV, kwaye bacinge ukuba xa befumana i-HIV, banokufumana unyango. Le ngcamango iphosakeleyo ngenxa yokuba (1) akukho zonke iifom ze-HIV zonyango kwaye (2) unyango olungapheliyo lwe-antiretroviral alukho ngaphandle kwemiphumo emibi, kubandakanywa isicupunu, ukuhlanza, ukukhupha isikhumba, isifo sohudo kunye ne-peripheral neuropathy.
- Ukusetyenziswa kwezidakamizwa zenkampani-njenge-ecstasy, i-GHB, i-ketamine, kunye ne-crystal meth-idibene nokungafihli.
- Ukubuyiselwa kwakhona kungasetyenziselwa ukujamelana noxinzelelo kunye nokuxhalabisa. Ukongezelela, ukudakumba kunokuncedisa kulo mkhuba kwezinye.
- Ukucinga ngomzimba, ukuzithemba, kunye nokuzixabisa kunokuba negalelo lokungaphumeleli. Ngokukodwa, amadoda avumelana nalo mkhuba angabonakala ekhangeleka kumlingane wesini.
- Amadoda abuyele kwisenzo sokungafihli emva kweminyaka yokusebenzisa iikhondom zikhankanya "ukukhathala ngokwesondo ngokukhuselekileyo."
- Izizukulwana ezincinci zamadoda angama-gay abangakhange bafumana ulwaphulo-mkhuhlane we-AIDS abanokungaqondi indlela encinci ngayo ukuhweba phakathi kwezinto ezinobuncinci kunye nokusetyenziswa okungaphantsi kwamakhondom kunye nokuqinisekiswa kokuphepha ukusuleleka koGawulayo. Izizukulwana ezindala, ezikhumbuza ubhubhane lwe-AIDS, ziyavuya ukuhlawula eli xabiso elincinci ukuhlala isifo esingenasisiseko.
- Ukulinganiswa kokungafihli nto kungokuba kukuba unesifo se-HIV, umntu ongenayo i-HIV anganciphisa uxhalaba lwe-AIDS. Ngamanye amazwi, akusayi kuba nesizathu sokukhathazeka ngokufumana i-HIV ukuba sele unayo.
- Kwinqaku ebizwa ngokuthi "I-Sexual Condom: Amadoda angama-Gay, aBarebacking, kunye nokuNcipha koMngcipheko," umbhali uMichael Shernoff ubhala oku okulandelayo: "Ukuhlaselwa kwabantu ngabomntu kunokuba negalelo lokungabikho nto ngokudala ingqiqo yokuba indoda engumfana ingabalulekanga kwaye ingabalulekanga ukuba uyayisebenzisa, kwaye kunjalo namadoda ayenazo zesini kunye nawafunayo uthando kunye nokuqinisekisa. "
Kuzo zonke iinkcukacha zilapha ngentla, ukuzonwabisa kunye nobudlelwane obusondeleyo ngokwesini esingakhuselekanga mhlawumbi sixilongo zonke ezinye izizathu zokuthatha inxaxheba ekulalweni kwesondo esingakhuselekanga. Nangona kunjalo, ukukhankanya nje ukuba ungazibaleki kwiimfuno zomntu kukunciphisa. Izigqibo ngokungathi ukuthatha inxaxheba kulo mkhuba kuninzi kakhulu.
Okukwintsusa
Ukuba usebenzisa ii-intanethi zokubambisana kwi-Intanethi ukuseka uxhulumaniso lwexesha elide nomnye umntu, umngcipheko wokwakha i-STI akunakwenzeka ngaphezu kokudibanisa nomlingani ongasebenziyo ngaphandle.
Ukuba usebenzisa ii-intanethi ze-intanethi ukufuna kuphela isondo, nceda uqaphele kwaye sebenzise iikhondom kwaye uvavanywe rhoqo ngama-STI. Ngokukodwa, uphando lubonisa ukuba amadoda amaninzi kunye nabasetyhini abasebenzisa ezi ndawo bayabheka ngokukhawuleza amathuba okungafihli, kwaye amanye ala madoda anesifo se-HIV.
Nangona kungenakwenzeka ukuba nayiphi na umntu umntu uza kusasaza ngenjongo yentsholongwane kaGawulayo kwenye indoda, abantu abaninzi abanentsholongwane kaGawulayo abazi ukuba banesifo. Nceda ungacingi ukuba uxinzeleleke ekusebenziseni ikhondom kwaye uhlale uqaphele ekunyanzeleni kwakho ukusebenzisa ikhondom kunye neqabane lesini esingaziwayo. Khumbula ukuba nangona sinobuchule obuphathekayo kwi-HIV, kwaye esi sifo asiyiyo isigwebo sokufa ngokuzenzekelayo okokuqala, sisisifo esingapheliyo kwaye sisisifo esicinga ukuba siphathwe ngonaphakade siphumelele kwaye siphumelele.
Kwinqaku yokugqibela, ngenxa yokuba iingcali zempilo yoluntu zixhalabele kakhulu ngokumalunga phakathi kwamaziko okuthandana kwi-intanethi kunye ne-STI kuma-gay madoda, nceda ungacingi ukuba abafazi abasengozini, nabo. Enyanisweni, izinga le-HIV liphezulu kakhulu kwabasetyhini abasetyhini.
Abasetyhini abafuna ukuhlangana kwexesha elifutshane nezesondo kufuneka bafune ukukhusela kwaye bavavanywe rhoqo. Okokuqala, umngcipheko we-HIV kunye nezinye izifo zengculaza zikhona nanoma yiluphi uhlobo lokuziphatha kakubi. Okwesibini, ubulili bubuncwane, kwaye abantu abaninzi abasebenzisa ii-intanethi zokuxhonyelwa kwi-intanethi baxhatshazwa ngamabhinqa. Aba bantu banokubeka umngcipheko kubasetyhini abalala nabo ngaphandle kweminye yabasetyhini kodwa nakwabanye amadoda, nabo. Kwaphinda kwakhona, uphando oluphando lubonisa ukuba kukho inani elininzi lamadoda anesifo se-HIV abafuna ukuvalela amava e-intanethi, baninzi abangayaziyo ukuba bane-HIV.
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