Emva kokumangaliswa kokuqala kokufunda ukuba umntwana osandul 'uzalwa une-Down syndrome , njengomzali wabanye abantwana, kukho into ebaluleke kakhulu ukujongana nayo ekhaya: Indlela yokuchazela abantwana bakho abadala ukuba umzalwana wabo omtsha okanye udadewabo une-Down syndrome.
Ngokuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yabantwana bakho nobuntu babo, baya kuqhuba iinkcukacha ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo.
Abanye abantakwabo asebekhulile banokwazi ukuba nolwazi malunga ne-Down syndrome, kwaye banokuthi badibene neontanga ezine-Down syndrome esikolweni okanye kwezinye iindawo.
Abantwana abaneminyaka engama-10 ubudala baya kuzisa iingcamango zabo, ngoko balungele:
- Phulaphula ngokukhawuleza kungekho mgwebo.
- Lindela iimpendulo ezingalindelekanga: ukumangaliswa, ukudabuka, okanye ukunganakwa. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha, abantwana bakho baya kunika izifundo ezibalulekileyo zokubamkela nokuphefumlelwa.
- Yiba nesineke kwaye ungabagwebi abantwana bakho ngokuthetha ngokunyanisekileyo malunga neengxaki zabo. Bangasebenzisa isigama esingafanelekanga. Leli hlabathi elitsha kubo, njengokuba kunjalo kuwe.
- Thatha isinyathelo esinye ngelo xesha. Ungalindele ukuba abantwana bakho bafumane yonke inkcazelo abayidingayo kwingxoxo enye. Zama ukuthetha ngokukhululekile nangokunyanisekileyo, kwaye uqhubeke nokuzinika ithuba elikhethekileyo lokuxoxa ngeemvakalelo zabo nokuphendula imibuzo yabo.
- Khumbulani abantwana bakho ukuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba imeko yomntakwabo, njengelungu lentsapho, ungumntwana wokuqala kwaye uya kuba namalungelo kunye neembopheleleko ngokusekelwe kwamakhono akhe kunye nophuhliso lwakhe. "Asilindeli ngaphantsi ngenxa yokuba une-Down syndrome, kodwa ukumvumela ukuba asibonise oko akwaziyo ngokuthandana nothando lwethu."
- Abadala abantwana, banokuthi badideke ngokuxutyushwa kweemvakalelo abanokuba nazo. Amaxesha amaninzi abafuni ukubeka uxinzelelo kubazali babo kwaye oku kunokubenza bafihle iimvakalelo zabo. Ukufumana uxhaswa ngemvakalelo esikolweni, icawa okanye namanye amalungu entsapho ihlala ilungileyo.
- Ukuba unomntwana oselula, abahlobo bakhe badlala indima ebalulekileyo ebomini bakhe. Mbuze ukuba kukho umntu okhethekileyo onokuthanda ukwabelana naye ngeendaba, nakwindawo abahlala naye eklasini okanye ngabahlobo. Ukunika uncedo kule nkqubo. Unokufuna isikhokelo sokuthetha ngale nto nabo.
- Chaza abantwana bakho ukuba isiqalo sinokuba ngumngeni kumntu wonke, kodwa ekugqibeleni wonk 'ubani uya kusetshenziselwa inkqubo entsha. Akukho mntu kulindeleke ukuba uphumelele ngenkqubo, kodwa abe nomonde kwaye ahloniphe iimvakalelo zomnye nomnye.
Njengabazali, kulungile ukuba ungabi nazo zonke iimpendulo. Ukuba naliphi na ixesha ongayazi into oyithethayo, chazela abantwana bakho ukuba sonke sifunda kunye kunye nokubaluleka kokuthatha lula, kwaye ukuqonda ukuba izimpendulo ezininzi ziya kufika ekugqibeleni.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqonda ukuba njengabazali kunye nosapho, kuyinto evamile ukuba neengcamango, iingcamango okanye iingxaki malunga ne-Down syndrome.
Musa ukuthatha izimvo okanye iimpendulo njengento yokugwenxa. Wonke umntu ekhaya uya kufuna isikhokelo kunye nemfundo ukuqonda ukuba kutheni isihlobo sabo sine-Down syndrome, kwaye yintoni okuya kuphuhliswa ngayo.
Nasiphi na umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa kufuneka adake ingqalelo kunye nokuzinikela kwiinyanga zokuqala zokuphila, kwaye nangona kunjalo ukuba ufunyanwe ukuba une-Down syndrome okanye uneengxaki zezokwelapha. Thetha nabantwana bakho ngale nkqubo kwaye ungalindelanga ukuba baqonde okanye baqokelele lonke ixesha. Izinto zokuqala azizange zilula, ngoko kuzama ukucwangcisa ixesha elilodwa labantwana bakho abadala. Musa ukuzibeka kwindawo yesibini, okanye uvumele ukuba bacinge ukuba iimfuno zabo azibalulekanga. Wonke umntwana unesidingo esikhethekileyo sohlobo oluthile, kwaye bonke badinga ukunakekelwa ngokupheleleyo kunye namazwi onke okuxhobisa kunye nokuxabisa.