Iingcebiso zokufikelela kwiintsuku zokuqala
Kungaba nzima ukuva ukuba umntwana wakho ufumene ukuba une-Down syndrome . Emva kweenyanga zokulinda umntwana ophilileyo, ihlabathi lakho liguqulwa yiendaba. Lezo ntsuku zokuqala emva kokuzalwa komntwana zidideka kakhulu, zisoyike kwaye zikhulu.
Abazali abatsha badla ngokufumana ulwazi okanye bafumana inkolelo encinane kakhulu.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni imeko yakho, kukho ezinye izinto onokuzenza ukukunceda ukuhlangabezana neendaba ukuba umntwana wakho une- Down syndrome .
Musa ukuyilahla imizwa yakho
Ukuzalwa komntwana ophethe i-Down syndrome ngokuqhelekileyo kuzisa neemvakalelo eziphikisanayo. Uyakuthanda umntwana onayo, kodwa usalusizi ukulahlekelwa yintsana oye wacinga. Kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba iimvakalelo ezingqubuzanayo azikhenxisi omnye ngaphandle. Unokuziva iimvakalelo eziliqela ngexesha elinye kwaye zonke zivumeleke. Kungathatha iintsuku okanye iiveki ukuba uphinde uphinde uhlawule ngokomzwelo-le nkqubo yinto engakwazi ukukhawuleza. Zithatha nje olunye usuku ngexesha.
Oko kuthetha, ukuba emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa, uziva uhlungu, uxhalabile kwaye ucinezelekile, qiniseka kwaye utshele ugqirha wakho. Unokubandezeleka ngenxa yokucindezeleka kwangemva kokubeleka. Ukuba nomntwana onesifo se-Down syndrome akenzi oku, kodwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba kufuneka uhlolwe kwaye uphathwe xa kuyimfuneko.
Zizinakekele
Ukubeletha kuyinzame eyenza kube lula ngokufika kwintsana ephilileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ukufumana iindaba ezihlaselayo emva kokuzalwa kunokunciphisa ukhathala kwakho kwaye wenze ixesha lakho lokubuyisela ixesha elide. Kubalulekile ukuzikhathalela ngokwenyama ngeli xesha. Zama ukutya kakuhle kwaye ulale ngokukhulu kangako.
Ukuba umntu onokuzithandela ukuncedisa umntwana okanye ukupheka ukutya, vumela.
Thatha olunye usuku ngexesha
Ekuqaleni, kulula kakhulu ukuvumela iingxaki malunga nekamva lomntwana wakho. Unokufumana uxhalaba malunga nokuba uya kusikolo, yintoni na umsebenzi oya kuba nawo, kwaye uya kuhlala phi xa ekhulile. Kuyinto engokwemvelo ukuba neenkxalabo kwaye zibaluleke kakhulu imibuzo, kodwa kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba le mibuzo ayidingi ukuphendulwa ngoku.
Ukujongana nobomi bemiba emva kokuzalwa komntwana kunokuba kunzima kwaye kudala ingqiqo. Yenza okusemandleni akho ukubeka iinkxalabo zakho malunga nekamva kude kube ngoku. Jabulela lwakho usana olutsha uze uchithe ixesha ukumazi. Akukho nto ixabisekileyo kunezo iveki ezimbalwa zokuqala emva kokuba umntwana wakho azalwe, kwaye iya kunyuka ngokukhawuleza. Zama ukuphumla kwaye ujabulele umzuzu.
Imithombo:
> Cunningham, C. Ukuqonda i-Down syndrome: Isingeniso kubazali (wesi-2.). I-Cambridge, MA: i-Brookline. 1999.
> I-Grayerson-Stund-Gunderson, uKaren. Iintsana ezine-Down Syndrome: Isikhokelo sabazali abatsha I-Woodbine House. 1995