Ngaba unqwenele ukwazi ukuba ungathini kumhlobo, ilungu lentsapho okanye osebenza naye ophulukisayo kwisifo esibi? Abantu abaneengxaki zempilo ezinjengomdlavuza kunye nesifo soqhelo baqaphele ukuba abahlobo kunye nabanqwenela kakuhle banokuthi baxilwe ngolwimi xa bengazi ukuba bathini. Abasindileyo besihlwele bahlanganiselwe ngentshiseko yokuziqhelanisa, kwaye bahlala bexhalabele kwaye bafune ukuthetha nabo ngenxa yokuba abahlobo kunye nosapho banokuba nzima xa bezama ukugwema ukuthetha into engalunganga.
Xa ulazi umntu ophinda ahlaselwe yintlungu, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba inkxaso yentlalo, ngaphakathi kwayo, inceda inqubo yokuphilisa. Ukunxibelelana okuthabathayo kukunceda ukunqanda ukudakumba nokukhupha iikhemikhali kunye namahomoni akhuthaza ukubuyiswa kwengqondo. Kulula kakhulu ukuthetha nomntu ophulukisayo xa eyazi ukuba ufuna ukuva ntoni.
Nazi izinto ezi-7 apho wonke umntu osindayo ekufuneka aziva.
Ngenye imini kwixesha.
Ncoma ngokunyanisekileyo ukuphuculwa okuncinci ukuba umhlobo wakho uziqhenyce. Ukukwazi ukuhamba ngamanyathelo angama-10 kunokufumana impumelelo enkulu kumntu onokuhamba ngokuhamba ngee-2 ngeveki edlulileyo. Musa ukulindela izinto ezingenangqondo ngokuthetha ukuba umthandayo kufuneka abuyele kwimarathons ezayo ngonyaka ozayo.
Yiyeke iindawo ezithile zokubeka iinjongo kwiingcali ezizazi iinkcukacha zakho malunga nokulahleka kwesifo somhlobo wakho. Kuyinyaniso ukuba nesimo sengqondo esithi, 'isibhakabhaka singumda,' sikhuthaza.
Kodwa abanye abasindileyo basenokuxhalabisa ukuba ukungaphumeleli kwinqwenela yakho ephakamileyo kuya kudideka. Bonisa ukuba uyamkela umhlobo wakho kungakhathaliseki umphumo wexesha elide. Uninzi lwezigulane zogqatso ziyazi ukuba ukuphuculwa kunokuba kuncinci okanye kuninzi kwaye kukho izinga lokungaqiniseki .
Ndingakunceda
-Better-Yintoni oyifunayo ngoMvulo olandelayo?
Ukunikezela ukunceda kwaye ukhethe ixesha lokwenza 'okwenene.' Uninzi lwabasindileyo alufuni ukuba ngumthwalo. Xa ubeka ezimbalwa iintsuku ozifuna ukukunceda, kunokukhuthaza umntu ongenqikaza ukukuthabatha kwisipho sakho.
Yintoni endiyakwenza ngayo?
Abaninzi abasindileyo bafuna ukulungelelanisa izinto endlwini ukuze benze ubomi bemihla ngemihla ngokulula. Xa abantu bezinto ezindala bafuna ukulahla, izinto ezihamba ngexesha lonyaka, okanye izinto ezidinga ukulungiswa kwakhona, iziphumo zentlungu zivakalelwa ngakumbi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, le mi sebenzi enokubonakala ngathi ikhawuleza kwaye kulula ukuba inokubonakala ibangel
Ukwamkela imeko
Ukuphazamiseka kuyinto engamkelekiyo kungakhathaliseki ukuba uyayibona njani. Ukwenza izinto zibe zibi nakakhulu, zikhona izinto ezinobungozi ezinokulawulwa koluhlungu, mhlawumbi, lunokuba luncedo lokunyamekela kwiminyaka ekhokelela ekugqibeleni. Musa ukuzithemba ukuba usisindise ngenxa yokungazinyameki. Ungamangaleli umlingane okanye uchaze ukuba abantwana abadala 'ababizi ngokwaneleyo.' Musa ukugxeka ababoneleli ngezempilo ngenxa yokungenzi ngokwaneleyo.
Isibetho senzeke. Ukumangalela umntu osindileyo ngenxa yokungayinyamekeli impilo yakhe ngaphambi kokuba unqabile.
Akukho nzuzo yokwenza umntu azive azibi ngeemeko ezingatshintshiyo- nje jonga phambili kwikamva. Oogqirha basebenzisana nabasindileyo besifo ukuba bahlolisise izinto ezinobungozi kwaye benze isicwangciso sezonyango ukukhusela imivimbo eminye, ngoko akudingeki ukuba ubeke le mfanelo kumhlobo wakho.
Ungandinceda?
Oku kunokwenza ukuba umhlobo wakho azive ephila. Cela uncedo okanye iingcebiso malunga nommandla wakhe wobungcali, nokuba ukhulisa abantwana, ukulima, ukupheka okanye inkolo. Uninzi lwabantu luphumelela ngokuhlonipha nokuhlonishwa. Ukuba unakho ukukhumbuza usindiso lwabadlali kunye nokucela ukuba abelane ngolwazi oluthile, ingxoxo yakho iya kuba neenzuzo ezihlala ixesha elide.
Masijonge nje.
Hamba ukuhamba, ukutya kwasemini, ukuyothenga, ukwenza izinto, ukuzithandela okanye ukutyelela. Xa utshilo umntu ophulukisayo kwisifo esiyingozi ofunayo ukuba udibanise kunye kunye nokuzibophelela, uvumele ukuba umhlobo wakho abhekise kwisahluko esitsha ebomini. Unika umnqweno wakho othandekayo ukuba ikamva likhulu ngaphezu kokugula kuphela.
Ziziphi Izicwangciso Zakho ...?
Xa ucela malunga nezicwangciso zakhe zokuzalwa kwakhe, umhla wesiganeko njl., Ubonisa ukuba ukholwa kwixesha elizayo kwaye uphila ubomi ngokuzeleyo. I-stroke inokuthintela okanye ukulibala ukuchitha iminyaka yegolide ehamba kwihlabathi, kodwa akufuneki ukuphelisa ukunandipha .
Iingcamango Zokugqibela
Abaninzi bethu abangekho ngokwemvelo bathambekele ekutheni into efanelekileyo. Kwabanye bethu, uvelwano kunye noxhumo kuthatha isicwangciso kunye nokucinga kwangaphambili ukuba unokukwazi ukucinga indlela yokuzibeka ngayo kwezinye izicathulo zesinye. Umntu osindayo oza kuphazamiseka uya kuzuza xa ucinga ngokuthethayo ukuze uqiniseke ukuba ukhululekile kwaye wenze ukuba omnye wakho adibanise nezinto afuna ukuziva.