Yiba ngumphulaphuli oxhasa
Ukunika inkxaso umntu osithandayo ngomhlaza akulula. Ufuna ukuba khona kumhlobo wakho okanye ilungu lentsapho , kodwa ngelo xesha, ukhathazeka kwaye uzive uvakalelwa. Uloyiko lokuba ukubonakalisa imvakalelo yakho kuya kuphelisa ukulimaza kunokuba uncede. Gcina ukhumbule ukuba amandla akho aya kubaqinisa. Ngaba unika njani inkxaso kwaye unika njani ngaphandle kokuphula?
Mamela Ngayo Intliziyo, Kungekhona Iindlebe Zakho
Xa umthandayo uthetha ngomhlaza wabo, phulaphula. Phu laphule. Ngamanye amaxesha, akusikho into oyithethayo, yinto oyenzayo. Ukuphulaphula ngenye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokubonisa ukuba unomdla. Ukuba wakho umthandayo ufuna ukunyuka kwaye ahlasele malunga nokuba ubomi obungenabulungisa okanye nantoni na engqondweni yakhe, makube njalo. Sifanele sibe nefuthe lokudumala rhoqo emva kwexeshana ukuze siveze iimvakalelo zethu. Ukwazi ukuba banamahlombe ukukhala kwabo kuyintuthuzelo.
Ukuba uyingxaki yendalo, kuya kuba yinguqu yokuma kwaye uphulaphule ngaphandle kokucamngca izicombululo. Eli akusixesha lokunikela isisombululo, lixesha lokuphulaphula. Nangona umhlobo wakho ebuza, "Ndingenza ntoni na?" phakathi kweminye iminyango, ubambelele kwisisombululo baze badlule isigaba sokungena kunye nenengqondo yokulungisa ingxaki.
Ungabonakali naluphi na ukulahla Unokuba Uvakalelwa
Kuqhelekile ukuba ungakholelwa.
Mhlawumbi uye wakuva ngabanye abantu abaye baphathwa kakubi kwaye ulingeka ukuba ulandele elo themba. Ukuba umhlobo wakho sele efunyanwe, kuyafaneleka ukuphakamisa imbono yesibini , kodwa ngenxa yezizathu ezifanelekileyo, kungekhona kwithemba lobuxoki. Ukukhuthaza iingcinga ukuba umhlaza wabo unganomdlavuza kunokubakhokelela ekulibaleni unyango, olunokubangelwa yimiphumo ebulalayo.
Musa ukuphika okanye ukukhuthaza ithemba lobuxoki.
Nciphisa Indlela Odla Ngayo Xa Uthi 'Kuya Kuba Nobulungisa'
Ukuba wayesazi ukuba ziphi izihlandlo isigulane somhlaza esivayo ukuba ngolunye usuku, awuyi kuthetha nto. Xa izigulane zomhlaza ziva iinjongo ezinje, enye yezinto zokuqala abazibuzayo, "Kuthekani ukuba akulungile," okanye "Uyazi njani?". Esikhundleni sokuzama ukuqinisekisa ukuba yonke into iya kulungiswa, qinisa ukuba baya kuyenza ngomhlaza.
UkuBaluleka Kubaluleke Kangako
Thetha malunga noko kwenzekayo ebomini bakho, okulungileyo okanye okubi, kumhlobo wakho okanye othandekayo ngomhlaza. Unokuvakalelwa kukuba ubomi bakho buyingqayizivele xa kuthelekiswa nokuba nomhlaza, kodwa kubalulekile ukwenza okuqhelekileyo njengoko unako. Inceda ukubeka ingqwalaselo yabo kwisifo sabo kwaye ibe yinxalenye yobomi bemihla ngemihla njengokuba babephambi kokuxilongwa.
Kuqhelekileyo ukuba izigulane zomhlaza zive ngathi zingasebenzi, nangona zisebenza ngokugcwele. Abantu baqala ukubaphatha ngokukhawuleza xa beva ngoxilongo lwabo. Ukugcina isisiseko kuyinto ephambili yokujongana.
ILizwi
Imfihlelo yokuxhaswa kwezi ngcebiso. Kukho kwakhona 4 ukukhumbula xa unyamekela umthandayo ngomhlaza: Ukuphulaphula, Ukufunda, Ukuthanda, kunye neninzi yokuhleka.