KwiSifo nakwiMpilo
"Mna, Sally, ndithatha wena, Fred, ukuba ube ngumyeni wam osemthethweni, ukuba ube kunye nokubamba, ukususela namhlanje ukuya phambili, ukuba kube ngcono, ngakumbi, ukuba ube nobutyebi, kubahlwempuzekileyo, ekuguleni nasempilweni, de kube sekufeni inxalenye. "
Kwabaninzi, ezo zifungo ezathatha iminyaka engama-50 edlulileyo ziphambili zabo iingqondo xa ziqaphela indlela yokunyamekela ngayo iqabane okanye iqabane kunye ne- Alzheimer's disease .
Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo, akuwona umsebenzi olula. Ukunyamekela iqabane okanye iqabane kunye ne-Alzheimer okanye olunye uhlobo lwesifo sengqondo sokungaboni kakuhle kwengqondo lunokuqala ukusuka kwincinci encinane kwindlela ekuhambeni kwinqanaba lokuqala ukuya kumngeni omkhulu kumgangatho ophakathi kunye nakwixesha elizayo.
Indlela I-Dementia ijongene ngayo Umtshato
Xa isifo se-Alzheimer sibonisa, iindima ziqala ukutshintsha. Yintoni eyayibe yintsebenziswano nobungane obude ubomi ngoku bufana nobuninzi bomsebenzi wabazali nabantwana. Elinye iqabane liba nexanduva lomnye, lixhalaba ukuba likhawuleza okanye lilahlekile endleleni eya ekhaya.
Kwezinye ubudlelwane, umntu onomdemokhrasi uyamkela isikhokelo somlingane wakhe kwaye uyazimela ngokuzithandela kuye ukukhokela. Kwabanye, intukuthelo kunye nentukuthelo kukhula kuba "umxelela ukuba yenzeni" lonke ixesha.
Ulwalamano olunokutshatyalaliswa lunokutshintsha kwakhona xa umdemokhrasi uxabela umtshato, ushiya umlingane onomnakekeli enganikezi kakuhle into efanelekileyo kwaye inenzuzo kubo bobabini.
Kukho imingeni equka ukunyuka okanye ukuncipha inzala ekusebenzisaneni ngokwesondo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha, ukuziphatha okungafanelekanga kuphuhlise .
I-Dementia nayo ingabangela imibuzo ethile yokuziphatha malunga nokuba ngaba kufanelekile abantu abaneengqondo zokulala ngesondo. Oku kungenxa yokuba kulwalamano olusisiseko, ingongoma xa umntu olahlekelwe yimemori elahlekelwa amandla okuvuma ukusebenzisana ngokwesondo kunzima ukuzimisela.
Nangona kunjalo, abo banenkxalabo yokuziphatha bafuna ukukhusela amalungelo omntu ngokwesini kunokwenzeka ngenxa yokuba oku kunokuba negalelo kulwalamano olunentsingiselo kunye nolonwabo.
Kukho iziphumo zomzimba ekubeni ngumnakekeli komntu onomdemokhrasi , kwaye iziphumo kumntu omtshato zigqatshelwe ngokucacileyo kwi-Alzheimer's disease 2014 ingxelo kunye neengxelo.
Ngamanye amaxesha, iinkalo ezinzima kakhulu zokunyamekela umlingane onomdemokhrasi zigugu lomntu kunye nezimo ezicelomngeni ezinokuza nezifo. Umthandana wakho unokugxeke ngokukhawuleza ukuba ungathembekanga ngaphandle kwesizathu okanye ube nobudlova kwaye udibanise xa uzama ukunceda.
Iingcebiso zempumelelo
Khumbula: yiSifo
Esinye sezicwangciso ezibalulekileyo zokujongana nale mingeni kukuzikhumbuza rhoqo ukuba ezo zinto ezinzima zizifo ezibonakalayo, kungekhona lakho iqabane. Lezo zivakalisi ezibuhlungu ezenzayo ngoko zenza kakubi kangako kuba uyazi ukuba zivela ekudemeni kwakhe, kungekhona intliziyo yakhe.
Uphando lubonise ukuba ukuhleka kunokunceda intliziyo, ingqondo kunye nomzimba. Se benzisa rhoqo. Ngokucacileyo, awuyi kuhleka umhlobo wakho onomdemokhwelo; Kunoko, unokuhleka kunye ngezinto ezihlekisayo ezenzekayo.
Okanye, ungasebenzisa ibinzana eliqhelekileyo okanye uhleko lwabiwe ngaphambili ukuze unciphise uxinzelelo. Abanakekeli banokufumana inzuzo yokuhleka kunye nomhlobo omhle. Nangona kunokuba kunzima ukulungiselela ukudibana nomntu othile kwikhofi yokuthetha, wena kunye nomthandayo uya kuncedwa xa uphuma kanye ngexesha elithile.
Qhubeka Ukulwela Ulwalamano Oluhle
Ngamanye amaxesha, zizinto ezincinci. Ngelixa uza kufuneka ukwamkele ukuba izinto zitshintsha, usenokukwazi ukwakha ixesha kwixesha apho ukhulisa umtshato wakho. Bamba isandla sakhe, winkini kuye kwinqanaba, okanye wabelane nge-milkshake ndawonye.
Mnike ukumanga aze amtshele ukuba uhle. Ukuba kunzima ukuphuma kwindawo yokutyela yakhe eyintandokazi kwiminyaka yakho yokukhumbula, mhlawumbi unako ukukuzisa.
Musa Ukuya Kuphela
Unokomelela, uhlakaniphile kunye neqabane elimangalisayo, kodwa akukho nto ithetha ukuba kufuneka uyenze oku. Cinga ngezixhobo zobungcali kuluntu lwakho njengamaziko eenkonzo zokunakekelwa kwempilo yasekhaya , amaqela enkxaso-mpahla okanye asekuhlaleni angakhuthaza wena, amalungu entsapho anokukwazi ukukunika ikhefu kanye ngexesha elithile, kunye nabahlobo ababuza ukuba bangakwazi njani uncedo (bathabathe inxaxheba ekunikezeni kwabo!).
Ukwazi ixesha lokufumana uncedo ngokunyamekela kubalulekile wena kunye nomlingane wakho.
ILizwi
Kuqhelekileyo, kwaye kulindeleke, ukuba isibini sitshintshwe yiinguqu ezidalwa ngumdaka womtshato. Ukwazi okumele ulindele kwaye uzimisele ngenjongo yokuba uyaphendule njani le nto ishintshela kwinqanaba elithile. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba kukho inkxaso ekhoyo kubo bobabini ngamagunya aseburhulumenteni kunye namaqela ase-intanethi. Esi sikhuthazo sinokukunceda ukuphefumula kwaye ugcwalise ibhanki yakho yomonde ukuze uqhubeke uthanda nothando lwakho, naphezu kwezi mingeni.
Imithombo:
I-Alzheimer's Association. 2104 Izifo ze-Alzheimer Facts and Figures. http://alz.org/downloads/Facts_Figures_2014.pdf
EMzantsi Afrika weAlzheimer. Ubudlelwane. http://www.alzheimers.org.za/index.php/nxibelelwano