Ezinye izitayela zabazali zenza iingxaki ezininzi kunokuba zizisombulule!
Zininzi iindlela ezilungileyo zomzali onomntwana nge-autism . Kwaye zimbalwa iindlela ezingenanto. Xa unesidingo esikhethekileyo somntwana, akusoloko kulungele ukuhamba kunye noko uvakalelwa yendalo. Ungadinga ukuguqula isitayela sakho somzali ukuze uhambelane nemingeni ethile kunye nemandla akho. Konke okuthethileyo, nantsi ezintandathu eziqhelekileyo zendlela zokubeletha kubhetele ukuphepha xa ukhulisa umntwana kwi-autism.
Helicopter Uzali
Abazali be-helicopter bahamba ngaphezu kwezingane zabo, bebukele baze baphendule kuzo zonke izinto. Baxhuma ukuba bancede xa ingxaki ibonakala kwinqanaba; bayangenelela ukuhambisa yonke indlela; Bafuna ukunyango olukhethekileyo kwintsapho yabo. I-helicopter yokubeletha ingaphantsi kwayo yonke into eyenziwa ngumntwana, njengoko yenza ukuba ukuzimela kunye nokuzikhethela kunzima ukuphumeza. Abazali bezingane abane-autism banamathele kwi-helicopter kubazali, kuba banenkxalabo yokuba umntwana wabo nge-autism uya kuba neengxaki abazikwazi ukuzisombulula-kwaye, eneneni, oko kunokwenzeka. Kodwa ukuba i-helicopter yokubeletha inqanda ukuphuhliswa kwezingane eziqhelekileyo, cingela oko kuyenzela abantwana abane-autism. Ayikwazi ukufunda ngokubona kunye nomzekelo, abantwana abane-autism kufuneka bafunde ngokufundisa ngokuthe ngqo-nangokwenza. Xa ungenelela ukwenza umsebenzi wabo, uyamphika umntwana wakho ithuba lokuqonda oko kuyimfuneko, okanye ukufumana umngeni wokuzama, ukuvuyiselwa kwempumelelo, okanye ukufunda okubandakanyeka ekuhlulekeni.
Umzali okhuphisanayo
Naliphi na umama oyingxenye yeqela likaMam noMazi uyazi zonke malunga nokukhulisana kwabazali. Ngubani umntwana oqeqeshiwe oqeqeshiwe kuqala? Wathi igama lokuqala? Ngaba uthatha iiklasi ezininzi, ukufunda ukudanisa okanye ukucula, ukudlala ibhola lebhola okanye ukufunda isiTshayina? Xa unomntwana ophethe i-autism, kunokuba nzima ukuphepha ukuziva ukuba umntwana wakho ushiye.
Xa uthengela umzali okhuphisanayo, uyaqiniseka ukuba uvelisa ukuba umntwana wakho akayi kuhamba-kwaye ukuba njengomzali, mhlawumbi ubeka ityala. Njengoko unokucinga, isiphumo sivakalelwa kukuba wena okanye umntwana wakho ulungile ngokwaneleyo. Impembelelo yeemvakalelo ezinjalo kumntwana nge-autism ayinakubonakala, kodwa yinyani.
Ukukhutshwa kwabazali
Abanye abazali bakholelwa ukuba umntwana wabo kufuneka avunyelwe ukuba alandele izinto azithandayo kunye neemfuno ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka kwabazali. Oku kusebenza kakuhle kubantwana abathile abaqhelekileyo, abazenzekelayo, nabazimisele ukusebenzisana nabanye. Akunjalo, ke, ukhetho oluhle lokubeletha umntwana ono-autism. Nangona umntwana ngokuqinisekileyo uyadinga kwaye ufanele "ukuhla" ixesha, abantwana abane-autism bafuna ukubandakanyeka kwabazali. Kungenxa yokuba, kwiimeko ezininzi, abantwana abane-autism badinga uncedo lwakho lokufunda, ukuzibandakanya, ukuthetha, ukubuza imibuzo, nokuphanda ihlabathi. Ngaphandle komnye umntu ukubanceda ukwakha ezi zakhono ezibalulekileyo, abantwana abane-autism banokugxininisa ngakumbi kwaye baxhomekeke bucala-kwaye banako okanye banqwenela ukubandakanya kwihlabathi elibanzi.
I-Perfectionist (Tiger) Umzali
Ewe, abanye abantwana bayaphumelela nabazali abakhokelela ngokupheleleyo kwi-A, usebenzo oluphezulu lwezemidlalo, uluhlu lwegrama kunye neendlela ezifanelekileyo zeetafile.
Abo babantwana akunakwenzeka ukuba babe yi-autistic. Inyani le nto kukuba abantwana abane-autism, ngelixa banokuba namandla amaninzi, banokuba nexesha elinzima kakhulu kunye nokulindeleke kobuninzi bezingane. Izakhono zabo zetekisi zingahle zitshatyalaliswe, ukwenza amanqaku aphezulu kunye negrama ngokugqibeleleyo akunakwenzeka ukufikelela. Basenokuba nobunzima bokubambisana ngokomzimba, okwenza iimbaleko zibe nzima kakhulu. Ewe, kubalulekile ukuba ulindeleke kakhulu - kodwa yenza ukuba okulindeleke kakhulu, kwaye wena nomntwana wakho nisezinye iinyembezi nokukhungatheka.
Umzali oVumelayo
Njengomzali womntwana onemfuno ezizodwa, unokuvakalelwa kukuba umntwana wakho ufanelwe ikhefu-100% yexesha.
Ungayilindela njani umntwana ophethe i-autism ukuseta itafile? wakhe umbhede? ufunde ukuzola? ayeke ukubetha udadewabo? I-Autism yenza ezinye izinto zibe nzima, kodwa phantse kuzo zonke iimeko abantwana abane-autism bangenza into eninzi - ukuba babuzwa kwaye bakhuthazwa ukuba benze njalo. Xa ubeka ibha engezantsi, okanye unikeze umntwana wakho nge-autism kakhulu ukuqeqeshwa okuncinci, ngokwenene wenza kube nzima ukuba baqonde okanye baphile ngokubhekiselele kwizinto ezilindelekileyo. Ukuqonda imingeni yomntwana yakho yinto enye; Ukucinga ukuba umntwana wakho akakwazi ukuqonda into into ehlukileyo.
Abazali beFrenetic
Ekubeni wavuka namhlanje kusasa, i-autism yakho ye-autism iye yafumana iiyure ezintlanu zonyango lokuziphatha , iyure enye inkulumo kunye nokunyangwa komzimba, iiyure ezimbini zokunyanga, kunye neeyure ezine zesikolo. Ngokukhawuleza xa ewela ebuthongweni obuthathaka, uyagxuma kwi-intanethi ukufumana enye iklasi yokwelapha, inkqubo, umsebenzi okanye uvimba ukuze ungeze kwishedyuli. Ngokuqhubeka okunjalo, umntwana wakho nge-autism akanalo ithuba lokusebenzisa oko akufundileyo, ukudibana kunye nokwazi omnye umntwana, okanye ukwenza nje oko abantwana abakwenzayo: ukudlala! Esikhundleni sokufuna ukuphanga kunye nokubandakanya kwiindlela zokwelapha kunye nemisebenzi, cinga ukuba kungenzeka ukuba iiyure ezimbalwa ngosuku lokuzilalisa, umzali nomntwana ongenakuqhathaniswa nokuba ngumntwana yinto nje into ekufuneka ingane yakho ikhule kwaye iphumelele.