Yazi ukuba nini na ukuthetha njani nini na
Abadala kunye nokuqhuba-kuyisifundo esichukumisayo. Unokuqhuba kunye nomama okanye utata kwaye uqaphele into ethile. Mhlawumbi uMama uye wangena emathinini ambalwa esitratweni kwaye wayethetha ngokukrakra ngabo, okanye uTata walahleka kwindawo yakhe. Zonke ezi ziimpawu ezilumkiso, kwaye zonke izinto ezinxulumene nazo, ngokubambisana ukuthetha malunga nombandela ziza kwenza umdala wakho amthande ngokukhuselekileyo kwaye wenze kube lula ngexesha lokugqibela apho mhlawumbi kufuneka bayeke ukuqhuba.
Makhe sijonge indlela yokuthetha kunye noMama okanye uTata malunga nokushayela kwaye uyazi ukuba kunokuba yintoni ixesha lokuthatha izitshixo zemoto.
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I-AAA yeThathu iphawula ezi ngcaciso malunga nokuqhubela phambili kwiziko lewebhu:
- Inani lamashumi angama-50 labantu abama-middle-aged kunye ne-80 ekhulwini labantu abangama-70s abanesifo se-arthritis, esibangela ukuguquka, ukuguquguquka, nokuguquka.
- Ngaphezu kweepesenti ezingama-75 zabaqhubi abaneminyaka yobudala engama-65 okanye ngaphezulu basebenzisa imithi enye okanye ngaphezulu, kodwa ngaphantsi kwesithathu kwisithathu bayavuma ukuqonda malunga nefuthe elinokuthi la mayeza ekuqhubeni ukusebenza.
- Amanani okuhlaselwa kwamaxhoba aphezulu aphakama ukususela kwiminyaka yobudala engama-75 kwaye aphakame ngokukhawuleza emva kweminyaka eyi-80. Oku kubangelwa umngcipheko ophezulu wokulimala kunye noxinzelelo lwezonyango, kunokunyuka ukunyuka kokungena ekuphazamiseni. Ngamanye amazwi, impilo ekhoyo yabadala ibenza baqhubekele phambili ukuba bangalimala kabi engozini.
- Ngonyaka wama-2030, izigidi ezingama-70 zaseMelika e-US ziya kuba ngaphantsi kweminyaka engama-65, kwaye i-85 ukuya kwe-90 ekhulwini yazo iya kuba neelayisenisi ukuqhuba.
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Kuthekani ukuba ndithe ndakuxelela ukuba ngomso, nje usuku, uya kuthi ungekho imoto ekhoyo? Kuthekani ukuba ndathi iveki? Unokuqala ukubona indlela ukuzimela kwakho kunye nemizwelo yakho iya kuthinteka ngayo.
Imoto ibonisa izinto ezahlukeneyo kubantu. Kwabanye, yindlela yokufikelela kwiindawo.
Kwabanye, malunga nokuma kunye nobunikazi, inkululeko kunye nokuzimela. Emva kobusuku bexesha lokuphila, kulula ukucinga ukuba kunzima kangakanani kubazali bakho ukuba bayeke iinqwelo zabo zemoto. Ukubonisa oko ukuqhuba ukuthetha kubakho kunokukunceda uqonde indlela yokusingatha imeko.
Ukujongana neengxaki zokuqhuba
Unokuyichazela njani xa umdala wakho omthandayo eqala ukuqhuba iingxaki zokuqhuba?
Ukuba uhlala kufuphi, into efanelekileyo kukugcina ngqo. Ukwahlula phakathi kweempawu ezinzulu kunye neengxaki ezingathí sina. Ngokomzekelo, ukudibanisa igesi kunye nokuqhekeza kuyingozi. Ukukhwela i-brake kungabi ngaphantsi koko. Ukuba unzulu, thatha inyathelo elikhawuleza. Ukuba ngaphantsi koko, qaphela ngokuhamba kwexesha, thabatha amanqaku, kwaye ujonge umzekelo ohambelanayo. Ezi nkcazelo ziya kunceda xa unomxholo.
Izinto ekufuneka zijonge ziquka:
- kunzima ukutshintsha iindlela
- iingxaki zokujika, ngokukodwa ukushiya
- ukuqhuba ngokukhawuleza kakhulu okanye ngokukhawuleza
- ixesha lokusabela
- abanye abaqhubi baqhayisa
- ukubetha iibhande
- zilandelayo zibonakaliso
- izikratshi kwiimoto
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abadala abadala baya kuqala ukuzilungisa, bephephe ukuqhuba ebusuku, kwimimoya embi, nakwiindlela zokuhamba. Umama, umzekelo, waqalisa ukuya kwindawo ngokulungisa. Dumisani ezi ziphatha, kodwa zithathe njengento yokuba izinto ziyakushintsha.
Unokufumana kukunceda ukujonga kunye nabahlobo babo, njengoko bekwazi ngaphezu kwakho. Hlola kwakhona noogqirha okanye ukhemistri, njengoko utshintsho lweziyobisi lunokuchaphazela ukuqhuba.
Umda wobudala kunye neemvavanyo zokuqhuba
Abantu bavame ukubuza ukuba kukho ixesha elithile elikhuthazwayo lokushiya ilayisenisi yakho.
Inkqubo yokuguga ihlukile kubantu bonke, ngoko kunzima ukulawula oku. Wonke urhulumente unemithetho yakhe.
Abadala basoloko bevelele kwiimpawu zokungcola. Baye, emva koko, banokwenzakaliswa kwengozi kwaye banokufa ngenxa yengozi. Njengoko kuphawuliwe ngasentla kwi-AAA ulwazi, kungenxa yokuba abantu abadala basoloko bephilile kwaye banzima kakhulu kubaqhubi abancinci.
Kwimeko yam ekhaya yaseNorth Carolina, abaqhubi abaneminyaka engama-70 ubudala okanye ngaphezulu kwabo ngexesha labo lokuqhuba ilayisenisi yokuqhuba umkhosi bafuneka ukuba bahlaziye ilayisensi yabo kumntu kwi-DMV ofisi yasekhaya.
Ukuhlaziywa kwakhona kweSebe lezithuthi (DMV) kungenziwa ngokusekelwe kwimeko yomzimba okanye yengqondo okanye umqhubi wokuqhuba. Ukuhlaziywa kwakhona kwe-DMV kunokucetyiswa ilungu lentsapho, i-EMT, okanye ipolisa. Iinkcukacha kwiirekhodi zabaqhubi bakho zabaqhubi zingenza ukuba uphinde uhlolisise.
Ukuhlaziywa kwakhona kubandakanya ukuphononongwa kwangoku komntu ngumphathi ogunyazisiweyo we-DMV. Iqulethwe ngodliwano-ndlebe kwaye ingaquka ukuhlolwa kombono, ukuhlolwa okubhaliweyo, kunye / okanye uvavanyo lokuqhuba.
Qala iNcoko
Ngokufanelekileyo, uqala incoko emva kwexesha kwaye kungekhona kwimo engxaki.
Kufuneka uqalise iingxoxo eziqhelekileyo. Khangela uvule kwinto athetha ngayo. Ngokomzekelo, cinga ukuba ubukele iindaba kwaye zibika ngengozi. Okanye mhlawumbi imozulu iyajika. Unokuthi kumama okanye uTata into ethile malunga neengozi zaloo ndawo kunye nokuba ungathini, unokwenza ezinye iindlela. Okanye ngokubhekiselele kwimozulu, bhengeza ukuba akuyiyona nto ingcono ukuqhuba kuyo nayiphi na indawo yezulu ehambelanayo.
Musa ukuba yonke intsapho ixhamle kumama okanye uTata. Khetha iphoyisa elilodwa "elibi"! Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuba lolu hlobo lwencoko luqaliswe ngokugqithiseleyo ngumlingane emva koonyana abadala okanye ugqirha.
Kwakhona, velwano. Qinisekisa iimvakalelo zabo uze ubuyele kwimiba imoto ibalulekile kubo. Umzekelo, ukuba kukufumana indawo, ke ube nesicwangciso endaweni yokuthutha enye. Ukuba ngaba malunga nesimo kunye nobunikazi, imoto imiswe endlwini yabo kwaye ivumele abanye bayisebenzise ukuze baqhube. Ukuba kukho inkululeko kunye nokuzikhethela, cwangcisa ukukhawuleza kweso sihlandlo.
Nika ubungqina malunga nento oyibonile.
Ukuba ufuna ulwazi oluninzi, uMbutho wamaMerika wabantu abahlala phantsi (AARP) unomthombo omkhulu, Ukuthetha nabaqhubi abadala. Inika i-seminar ye-intanethi ebizwa ngokuba "Sifuna Ukuthetha," oku kuya kukunceda ubone indlela yokuvavanya izakhono zakho zokuqhuba ukuthanda kunye nokubonelela ngezixhobo zokukunceda ukuba ube nale ngxoxo ebalulekileyo.
Yenza Utshintsho lube lula
- Yiba nesicwangciso. Kwintetho yakho kunye nocwangciso kuqala ufune ukubona ukuba kukho indlela yokugcina umntu emva kwesondo.
- Yenza utshintsho. Mhlawumbi banokuyeka ukushayela ebusuku, bagweme imimoya embi kunye nemimoya embi, okanye banamathele kwiindawo apho bangaqhuba khona ngokulula nangokukhuselekileyo.
- Shayela abazali bakho. Njengomncedisi, kufuneka uqaphele ngokukodwa umthwalo onokuzibeka kuwe njengomqhubi otyunjweyo, kodwa kunye nethuba elibonelela ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nomthandayo. Akufanele ube ngumqhubi wedwa.
- Uphando lweendlela zokuthutha. Njengoko ukhetho lwezothutho olufana nokufumana u-Uber ekuthandeni nakwabadala baye bajwayele ukusebenzisa iteknoloji, kuya kuba lula ukuba bafumane ezi zikhetho ezintsha zokuthutha. Kodwa ngokufana nokuguga endaweni yakho, umthandayo uya kulwa nokutshintsha, nokuba uhamba kwindawo yoluntu okanye ukuyeka ukuqhuba kwabo. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba ungancokola le ngxoxo ngendlela engafanelekanga, kulula ukuba kube yintshintsho.