Indlela yokwenza isigqibo esona sihle kwiimfuno zakho zonyango emva kokuxilongwa
Wonke umntu uya kufuneka enze izigqibo zokunakekelwa kwezempilo ngandlela-thile ebomini babo, mhlawumbi ngokwabo, amalungu abo entsapho, okanye zombini. Ezi zigqibo, ngelixa kunzima ngamanye amaxesha, ziyakuchukumisa yonke into ukusuka ekuhlaleni kakuhle kumgangatho wokunyamekela wena okanye usapho lwakho ukufumana. Ngona iindleko zokunyamekela zichaphazeleka zizigqibo zakho. Ngenxa yezi zizathu, ukuthatha ixesha lokwenza isigqibo esona sikhulu kakhulu.
Ingakumbi, abantu basebenza ngokusondeleyo kunye noogqirha babo ukwenza izigqibo zempilo zivuyiswe ngakumbi kunye nokunyamekela kwabo kunye neziphumo abazifezekisileyo. Ngenxa yoko, kubalulekile ukuba uthabathe inxaxheba kuzo zonke izigqibo malunga nempilo yakho. Ukubandakanyeka ngenkuthalo kuqinisekisa ukuba ufumana unonophelo olufunayo.
Ngokubanzi, ukwenza izigqibo zobulumko ezifanelekileyo kufuneka ucinge ngale migaqo emine elandelayo:
- Ubungqina kunye neqhinga lokukhetha ngalinye
- Ubungozi bokukhetha nganye
- Iindleko zenketho nganye
- Zakho iimfuno
Nantsi indlela yokulungisa kakuhle umgaqo ngamnye kwaye wenze isigqibo esilungileyo kuwe okanye ilungu lentsapho yakho.
Cinga ngeenketho zakho
Xa ugqirha wakho ebonisa ukuhlinzwa, unyango olutsha, uvavanyo lwezonyango okanye nayiphi na uhlobo lolondolozo, soloko ucela isizathu. Ziziphi iinjongo zonyango lwakho kwaye kuya kwenzeka ntoni ukuba ukhetha ukungayilandeli isiluleko sakhe? Ngaba zikhona ezinye iindlela ngaphandle koko akucebisayo?
Ziziphi iingozi ezibandakanyekayo kwinkqubo okanye kwimiphumo emibi? Ingaba ingozi iphezulu kuneenzuzo? Kungenzeka njani ukuba le ndlela iza kulungisa ingxaki? Iyiphi indlela ebiza ngayo?
Emva kokuba ucele yonke imibuzo yakho, xela ugqirha wakho udinga ixesha lokucinga malunga neenketho zakho. Cwangcisa i-aphoyintimenti yokudibana kwakhona.
Emva koko yenza uphando oluthile lwakho . Funda malunga nenketho nganye ngokusebenzisa izixhobo ezikhoyo kuwe kwilayibrari, abahlobo, kunye namawebhusayithi anokwethenjelwa . Qinisekisa ukuba ulwazi oluqokelela lusekelwe kuphando lwezobugcisa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, isifundo esinye okanye iimbali ezipapashwe yinkampani eya kuzuza kuyo ngokukhetha imveliso yazo ayikho izibonelelo ezincedo.
Isibalulekileyo kukuqokelela ulwazi oluninzi njengoko unako. Akukhona ukuba ungamthembi ugqirha wakho, injongo kukuba uyayiqonda ngokupheleleyo ukuba isincomo sakhe siquka ukwenzela ukuba wenze isigqibo esinolwazi. Gcina ukhumbule ukuba amaninzi amayeza aneemiphumo emibi , iimvavanyo zonyango zinokunika iziphumo ezingamanga, kwaye utyando luphantse lubakho ngengozi ethile. Ukuqwalasela zonke iinketho zakho kukunceda wena nodokotela wakho wenze isigqibo esilungileyo.
Cinga Ngeemilinganiselo Neenjongo Zakho
Ngoku ukuba uxhotyiswe ngayo yonke into oyifunayo ukuba uyazi malunga nemeko yakho kunye nokhetho lwakho olunokwenzeka, yithuba lokuqwalasela oko kubalulekile kuwe. Uvakalelwa njani malunga neenketho ozinikeziwe? Ngaba kukho enye inketho eyenza ingqiqo kuwe kunomnye? Ngokufanelekileyo, ufuna ukusekela isigqibo sakho malunga nenketho enokuthi ibangele kwisiphumo esihambelana namaxabiso kunye neenjongo zakho.
Enye indlela yokunciphisa ukhetho lwakho kukuba wenze uludwe lwezinto eziphathekayo kunye neqhinga lokhetho. Unokufuna ukwabelana naloluhlu kunye nogqirha wakho ukuqinisekisa ukuba ukhumbule yonke into ngokuchanekileyo. Kwakhona unokuzalisa ulwazi olongezelelweyo olungenakho kwiluhlu lwakho.
Kuba abantu abaninzi bajongene nezigqibo ezibalulekileyo zezempilo, iinjongo zabo kunye neenqobo zabo zibaluleke kakhulu njengamaqiniso enyango. Misela oko kukubaluleke kakhulu kuwe kwaye uqonde ngokucacileyo umphumo wakho oyifunayo. Ukwenza oko kunceda ukuqinisekisa ukuba izigqibo zakho zisekelwe kwizinto ozikhethayo ngabanye kungekhona kwiinjongo zomntu.
Gcina ukhumbule ukuba kuyinto evamile ukuba abantu baxabise izinto ngokwahlukileyo.
Ngoko ungazivakalelwa kukuba kufuneka unikezele uxinzelelo lweontanga xa usenza isigqibo malunga nokunyamekela kwezempilo. Uyazi oko kulungile kuwe. Abanye abantu bazimisele ukuhlinzwa ngokukhawuleza ukuba kuya kuphazamisa umcimbi ngelixa abanye abantu bazimisele ukubekezelela intlungu xa kuthetha ukuthintela ukuhlinzwa. Isibalulekileyo kukukhetha ukhetho olulungileyo oluhambelana neenjongo zakho. Khumbula, isitshixo kunoma yisiphi isigqibo sonyango sobulumko ukuvavanya ixabiso kunye neenjongo zakho ngokubhekiselele kwiindlela zokonyango ezikhoyo kwaye ukhethe ngokufanelekileyo.
Uvavanyo Jonga isigqibo sakho
Emva kokuba wenze ukhetho lwakho, kunceda ukubhala phantsi okulindelekileyo. Cacisa indlela obona ngayo unyango lwakho kunye nento okulindele ukuba isiphumo sibe. Emva koko, wabelane ngolu xwebhu kunye nogqirha wakho. Mbuze ukuba ngaba ulindelekile. Kananjalo unokuzalisa nayiphi na imingxuma apho kungasekho ulwazi olulahlekileyo. Unako ukulungisa nayiphi na ingcinga engafanelekanga.
Qinisekisa ukuba uyayiqonda ngokupheleleyo imiphumo yecala, intlungu, ixesha lokubuyisela, indleko, kunye nesiphumo sithuba eside esikhethekileyo. Qinisekisa ukuba esi sigqibo sivakalelwa kuwe. Zibuze ukuba kusengqiqweni kuwe kwaye ukuba le yindlela ofuna ukuyithatha. Musa ukuziva kakubi ukuba utshintshe ingqondo yakho. Ukwenza izigqibo ezibalulekileyo zezempilo akusoloko kulula. Thatha ixesha lakho wenze oko kuvakalelwa kukunene. Unokuphanda iindlela ezininzi ngaphambi kokugqibelela kwinto eyenza ingqiqo yakho imeko.
Ukuphuhlisa iSicwangciso soMsebenzi
Emva kwakho kunye nogqirha wakho wenze isigqibo, funda into ongayenza endleleni ukuze uqiniseke ukuba uya kuba nesiphumo esihle kakhulu. Ngaba kufuneka ulandele ukutya okuthile? Ngaba usebenza kakuhle? Yintoni ongayenza ukuze uqiniseke ukuba unesiphumo esona siphumelele kakhulu kunyango lwakho?
Bhala phantsi okufuneka ukwenze kunye nawaphi na amanyathelo alandelayo omele uwathathe. Yibeke ndawonye kwisicwangciso esenza ingqiqo kuwe. Ngokomzekelo, usebenza kangcono ngeenjongo zeveki okanye ukhetha ukujonga umfanekiso omkhulu? Khetha okunye okusemandleni akho. Qinisekisa ukuba unayo yonke into ebhaliweyo.
Kwakhona, cinga ngokuqinisekileyo malunga nesigqibo sakho uze ulandele iingcebiso zogqirha wakho endleleni. Ufuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba wenza inxalenye yakho ukuqinisekisa ukuba icebo lakho lonyango lizalisekisa oko kufuneka. Vula uvule ukwenza utshintsho endleleni xa kuyimfuneko. Ngamanye amaxesha izinto azihambelani ngokucwangcisiweyo, ngoko unokufuna ukulungelelanisa neendlela ezincinane. Khawukhumbule, ke ke, xa uhlanganyela kwisigqibo, nawe ukwabelana ngesiphumo.
Yabelana ngezigqibo zakho
Elinye inyathelo lokugqibela kwinkqubo yokwenza izigqibo kukuxelela abanye izinto kunye neziqinisekiso. Kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba abathandekayo bakho, ababoneleli bezempilo , kunye nommeli bayazi ukuba yiyiphi indlela oyenzayo kunye nendlela ofuna ukuqhubeka ngayo. Ngenxa yoko, qiniseka ukuba wabelana ngesicwangciso sakho senkqubo kuwo wonke umntu.
Le nyathelo ibalulekile ekuqinisekiseni ukuba izifiso zakho ziyenzeka ukuba awukwazi ukwenza naziphi na izigqibo ezongezelelweyo phantsi kwendlela. Ngaphezu koko, eli catshulwa livumela abo banenkathalo malunga nawe ngokungaqiniseki ukuba zeziphi iinjongo zakho zixesha elide.
Igosa liyakwazi ukulungiselela nawaphi na amaxwebhu angokomthetho ongayimfuneko. La maxwebhu aquka ukuthanda, amandla ahlalayo kwegqwetha , ummeli wezempilo , kunye nantoni na into angayiphakamisa. Abanye abantu bakhetha ukuba ne- DNR (okanye "musa ukuqhubeka"). Amaxwebhu abhaliweyo anokukhusela kwaye yenza kube nzima kunoma ubani ukuba enze ngokumelene nezifiso zakho.