Xa lixesha lokufumanisa ukuba unqwenela ntoni ukulawula ukuphela kobomi bakho, yile mibuzo oya kuyidinga ukuyilungisa, kunye nezixhobo zokuzifumana iimpendulo zakho.
1. Ngubani ofuna ukuyikhetha ukwenza izigqibo zonyango ngenjongo yokuba ungenakukwazi ukuzenza?
Lo mntu, obizwa ngokuba ngummeli wakho wezempilo okanye ugunyaziwe-ugqwetha-mthetho, ngumntu owaziyo uya kwenza izigqibo ngendlela ofuna ukuba zenziwe kwaye ngubani ongakwazi ukuma ngokulula kwi-bedside yakho, ukuba kuyimfuneko.
Ummeli wakho uya kufuna ukwenza iinqunto kuwe xa unesifo se-coma, unokuhlaselwa yintliziyo ngokukhawuleza okanye ukubetha, ufumane esinye isiganeko esixhatshazayo, kwaye akakwazi ukuthetha. Ukongeza kummeleli wakho oyintloko, uya kufuna ukukhetha ngubani ummeli wakho wesibini okumele abe ngummeli.
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2. Yiluphi uhlobo lwezoNyango olwenziwe nguwe, okanye awunayo, ufuna ukuba nalo?
- Ngaba ufanele ugcinwe usemphefumlweni (umshini wokuphefumula) okanye nge-tube ithambisa okanye inikezela ngamanzi? Phantsi kweyiphi imeko?
- Ukuba ukuphefumula kwakho kumise okanye intliziyo yakho yeka ukubetha, ngaba ufuna ukuhlaziywa ? Phantsi kweyiphi imeko?
- Ukuba unentlungu eninzi kwaye awukwazi ukwenza izigqibo ezicacileyo, ukwazi ukuba uya kunikwa izidakamizwa eziphezulu zokubulala ubuhlungu, ngaba ufuna ukuba intlungu ikhululwe?
Le mibuzo enzima kwaye ayiphenduli lula. Ngokuqhelekileyo iimpendulo ziza kunye nezigxobo ezinjengokuthi, "Andifunanga ityhubhu yokutya UNLESS kukho ithuba elihle nje lexeshana." Uninzi lwezibonelelo zibonisa ukuba ngokuthe ngqo iimpendulo kule mibuzo, kunzima nakakhulu ukufumanisa ukuba ngaba iinjongo zidibeneyo.
Unokuba neengxaki ezinzulu malunga nokuba ungathanda ukugcinwa uphila, nokuba uyazi ukuba umphumo wokugqibela uza kuba kukufa. Kunokwenzeka ukuba unokukhetha ukufa ngokukhawuleza kunokuba kamva. Okanye mhlawumbi ucacile ngemvakalelo yakho kodwa awazi ukuba bangabonakalisa njani kumaphepha.
Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuxoxa ngezi ntlobo zeengcamango neemvakalelo nabanye abaneengcamango ezibaxabisayo.
Unokuba ufuna ukuhlala kunye nabanye abathandekayo, abefundisi, umcebisi wezonyango othembekileyo, okanye nokuba ugqwetha ukuba uqikelele ukuba ucinga ngayo yonke imibuzo kunye neempembelelo ezinokuthi uphendule.
Nazi ezinye izixhobo zokukunceda ukuphendula le mibuzo enzima:
- Ukujonga ngokubanzi i-hydration kunye nesondlo ku-American Academy of Physicians Family
- Ulwazi malunga nokwenza i-hydration, ukondla, kunye nokukhetha ukuphefumula kwi-Alliance Career Alliance
3. Njengoko Ufikelela Ekupheleni Kobomi Bakho, Ngaba Ufuna Ukufa Ekhaya okanye Ukunyamekelwa KwamaHlomelo, Kuquka Ukunyamekela KwamaPalliative, Into Eyona Yakho?
Kwiminyaka emininzi edlulileyo, abaninzi abantu bafa ekhaya ngenxa yokuba loo nto yodwa. Njengoko izibhedlele zaba ziyingxenye yokunyamekela kokunyamekela komonde , abantu baqala ukwesaba ukufa kwizibhedlele, bebona ukuba bangaboni kwaye bangabonakali. Bayacela ukuba iintsapho zabo zivumele ukuba bafe ekhaya.
Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, intshukumo yokunyamekela izibhedlele kunye nokunyamekela kwenyameko . I-Hospice ibini isibonelelo kunye nesimo sengqondo ngokunyamekela kokuphela komsebenzi, ukunika izigulane kunye neentsapho zabo ngokufa ngesidima, inhlonipho, ukulawula intlungu kunye nentuthuzelo.
Umahluko phakathi kwezibhedlele kunye ne-hospice yohlukwano phakathi kokunyamekela nokunyamekela.
Ukunyamekelwa ngonyango kuyinkqubo ngenjongo yokuphucula iimpawu, ngelixa ukunyamekela ngentsholongwane kuhloswe ukunciphisa intlungu nokungahambi kakuhle ngenjongo yokunciphisa uxinzelelo lwesigulane.
Izibhedlele ezininzi kunye namakhaya angamahlengikazi kunika iinkonzo zokunakekelwa kwezibhedlele kunye neenkonzo zokunyamekela . Uninzi lwemigaqo-inshorensi, kunye ne- Medicare kunye neMedicaid , hlawula konke okanye inxalenye yeendleko zonyango kwizigulane ezifumana ezi nkonzo.
Kule minyaka, siye sava ngakumbi nangaphezulu malunga nelungelo lokufa, elibizwa nangokufa ngesithunzi , apho abantu bakhetha ukufa ngokwabo ngokwexesha labo. Imithetho sele iqalile ukujongana nokusemthethweni kwayo, kodwa akusiyo wonke umntu ulindele imimiselo eya kwenziwa.
Njengoko wenze iinqununu zakho malunga nokuba ufuna ukuphilisa iintsuku zakho zokugqibela, qwalasela ulwazi oluvela kwizixhobo ezilandelayo:
- Isikhokelo soKhathalelo lwePalliative
- I-Hospitals kaZwelonke kunye neNkcazo yokuNakekelwa kwePalliative
- I-National Hospice Foundation
4. Xa Ufa, Ngaba Unqwenela okanye Unqweneli Ukunikela Ngeziko Zakho okanye IziThuthi Kwabanye Abantu Abakubo Ubomi boBomi obuya kuphuculwa ngabo ngokusebenzisa kwabo.
Ngaba uyavuma okanye ungafuni ukunikela ngomzimba wakho wonke ukuba ufundwe kwiyunivesithi yezobugcisa ngabafundi ngabaphandi, oogqirha kunye nabafundi?
Abantu abaninzi banciphisa uxinzelelo lwabo malunga nomsebenzi wokufa xa becinga ukuba unokuphucula ubomi babanye ngokusebenzisa umnikelo womzimba okanye umnikelo wonke womzimba . Ukunceda umntu oyimfama abone, ukubonelela isibindi kumntu onesifo, okanye ukunikela ngesikhumba kumntwana otshisweyo isipho esingenabugovu esingaphaya kobomi bomniki.
Abanye abachasene nethemba lokunikela, ngamanye amaxesha ngenxa yezizathu zonqulo kwaye ngamanye amaxesha "ngenxa nje." Imibuzo malunga nelokufa-nini kunye nendlela esinqunywe ngayo-iphakamisa imibuzo malunga nokususwa kwequmrhu, ebizwa ngokuthi "ukuvuna," kwaye ngantoni na ekumemezweni kokufa okuye kwenzekayo.
Emva kokuba wenze ezi zigqibo, ungaqala ukuthatha isinyathelo esilandelayo, ukurekhoda iimpendulo zakho kumaphepha afanelekileyo.