U-Hunter Mosher waseMichigan oneminyaka emihlanu ubudala wasweleka emva kokuba ene-laser tonsillectomy. UMosher wayenokunciphisa iitoni zakhe ukuze aphilise i- apnea yakhe yokulala . Ingxaki engabonakaliyo, ingxaki ye-carotid, yenzeke kwaye yafa ngeveki kamva. Ndiyifunde eli bali emva nje kokufa kukaHunter Mosher kwaye wayenomsindo kwaye wayekhathazekile.
Ngokwengxenye kuba abantwana bam ababini bangena ekutyunjweni kweliveki kodwa nangenxa yokuba baninzi abantwana endiyithumela ekhaya emva kobuchule bemihla ngemihla. Intliziyo yam yaphuma kwintsapho kaHunter. Ngoku ukuba ndinokubeka eceleni iimvakalelo zam ndiyathemba ukuba ezinye zezinto endizithethayo kwimeko kaMosher zingenza umehluko.
Nangona i-complication ekuthiwa ibangele ukufa kukaHunter Mosher kunzima kakhulu ibali lakhe lenze ukuba ndiphinde ndibuye ndibuyelele ingozi ehambelana nokusetyenziswa kwemigaqo kunye neyiphi abazali abafuna ukuyijonga. Ngenxa yendawo yabo emqaleni, iifoni zixhomekeke ngokuthe ngqo kwi-artery enkulu. Umngcipheko wokubetha lo mzobo yiyona nkxalabo enkulu ekususeni iitoni. Izindlela ezahlukeneyo zokususa iifoni ziye zaphuhliswa zonke ezijoliswe ekunciphiseni umngcipheko wegazi kunye nentlungu. Ezi ziquka ukususwa kwelaser, i-microdebridement kunye nobuchwepheshe be-plasma. Oogqirha baye bawabuza ukusetyenziswa kwe-laser ukuhlinzwa kwimeko kaMosher.
Ukwenza izinto zibe zibi nakakhulu, kuba utyando lwe-laser kuthiwa unamava angenabuhlungu okhutshulwa ngumama kaMosher ukuba unentlungu ebuhlungu.
Ndiyincoma ukuba phambi kwakho okanye umntwana wakho abe ne-tonesillectomy ukuba uxoxela umngcipheko wokuphaphaza ugqirha wakho. Abagqirha abafanelekileyo bathatha ingozi ngokukodwa.
Ngaphambi kokuba izigulane zam zihambe esibhedlele, ndisebenzisa i-flashlight kunye nexinzelelo lweelwimi ukujonga imibhede. Ndikhangele nayiphi na imiqondiso yegazi elibomvu eliqaqambileyo. Unokwenza oku ekhaya usebenzisa intonga ye-popsicle (okanye ubuze umongikazi wakho ukuba akuthumele ekhaya kunye nabancinci beelwimi).
Makhe ndicacise ukuba kukho ezimbini iintlobo zegazi, igazi elidala kunye negazi elitsha. Kuqhelekile ukubona igazi elidala kunye nezilwanyana ezifana nesigulane siza kukugwinya ngexesha lotyando kwaye emva koko kuya kuphuma emanzini abo okanye kuhlanza. Igazi elidala libukeka libomvu kwaye ngamanye amaxesha lichazwa ngathi libukeka njengeendawo zekhofi. Kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukubona umncinci wegazi elidala. Igazi elibomvu eliqaqambileyo nayiphi na ixesha alimkelekanga kwaye kufuneka lixelelwe ngudokotela ngokukhawuleza. Ingabonakalisa emanzini, okanye ungabona izitshixo zegazi elibomvu ezivela kwiibhedi zontoni eziwela emqaleni. Abanye abantu banokuyilungisa igazi emlonyeni wabo. Ukuba kukho ukuphuma kwamanzi kunokuba kukho inani elikhulu lokuhlanza. Le ngxaki yongxamiseko efuna ukunakekelwa kwangoko unyango. Ukuba ukuphuma kwegazi kunokumiswa kweli nqanaba kudla ngokuba kuphela nge-cauterization yeebhedi zeetoni.
Into yokugqibela endifuna ukuyithetha kukuba, njengomzali, ukuba uziva ukuba kukho into engalunganga kumntwana wakho, unganqikazi ukunyanzelisa ukuba umntwana wakho abonakale ngugqirha.
Uyazi umntanakho angcono kunabophi na ugqirha okanye umongikazi. Wena ungowokuqala onokufumanisa nayiphi na ingxaki. Musa ukuphuhlisa i-intuition yakho. Ogqirha abakhulu kunye nabongikazi balaphula abazali. Ukuba lakho aliphulaphuli mfumene umntu othanda.