Kutheni amadoda enqwenela ukusebenzisa iikhondom?
Yinyani edelelwe ixesha elide lokuba, ngaphezu kokusebenza kwabo ekukhuseleni ukukhulelwa, iikhondom zibini kuphela ukuziyeka xa kuziwa ekuthintela ukuthintela kwizifo ezithathelwana ngocansi (STIs). Sekunjalo, nangenxa yokuvela kwe-HIV kunye ne-AIDS kwaye, ngokunyusa, ukunyuka kweemfuno zamadoda ukuthatha inxaxheba ekhuselekileyo ekukhuselweni kwe-STI, phantse isiqingatha sokukhulelwa konke akunakulungiswa.
Oku kuphakamisa ukuba ukusetyenziswa kwekhondom akuyiyona nto ephambili kumadoda. Ngoba?
Ukusetyenziswa kweCondom engalunganga
Kubonakala ngathi, nangona kusebenza kakuhle, ikhondom isabonwa ngeendlela ezininzi ezimbi. Okokuqala, kukho i-chestnut endala malunga neikhondom ezithinta umonakalo onobuqu. Amanye amadoda achaza amava okusebenzisa ikhondom ngokuthi "ukulala ngesondo kunye."
Uphando lubonisa ukuba amadoda amancinci angatshatanga angaphezu kwamabhinqa ukubonisa ukusetyenziswa kweikhondom. Kubantu, ukungazeleli akufanele kwenzeke kuphela ngcamango yokunciphisa ukuzonwabisa ngokwesondo, kodwa kunye nokuthambekela kokujonga iikhondom ngokungundoqo njengethuluzi lokukhusela. Kubonakala sengathi amadoda amaninzi ayakubona ukukhulelwa kwezilwanyana njengento yecala lomfazi.
Ekugqibeleni, amadoda ayengafuni ukubeka iibhuleki ngokufudumala kweso sikhashana ukwenzela ukusebenzisa iikhondom, okanye ukubonisa ukuba usebenzisa enye. Ukwesaba ngokubhubhisa ngokukhawuleza, abantu abaninzi banamahloni ngokubeka iikhondom phambi komlingane wesini.
Isizathu sokuba Sifune Ukusebenza Kanzima ekunciphiseni iStigma Elibi
Ukubaluleka kokusetyenziswa kwekhondom ngokuqhelekileyo kulungele ngqo. Sebenzisa ikhondom ngokufanelekileyo kwaye uyanciphisa kakhulu umngcipheko wokukhulelwa okungalindelekanga , wokuthengisa isifo sesondo, nokuba udlulisele kwabanye.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, iikhondom zinganciphisa ubuzwe.
Kwaye kunokubonakala kunzima ukuma phakathi kwesondo ukubeka ikhondom. Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, iikhondom zinokunyusa amandla okuhlala kwaye, ukuba iqabane lakho likhululekile ngenxa yokuba usebenzisa ukhuseleko, banokwandisa ukonwaba. Kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba ujobe ukukhwabanisa ekusebenziseni ikhondom, kwakhona, okwenza ube yingxenye yokudlala ngesondo. Ekugqibeleni, akukho nto ixhomekeke kunendoda ekulungele ukwabelana ngokunyanzela uxanduva lokwabelana ngesondo ngokukhuselekileyo.
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