Ibali lezingane malunga neCastimatic Cancer
Enye yemibuzo enzima kunokuba ndiyifunde kubasetyhini abasandul 'ukufumana ukuba bayaqhubeka, "Ndiyichazela njani abantwana bam abancinci ukuba ndibe nomhlaza webele?" Umbuzo onzima kakhulu uya kuba njalo, "Ndiyichazela njani abantwana bam ukuba ndinomdlavuza webele, umhlaza ongeke uhambe? Ndingabenza njani ukuba baqonde, bengabesabi kakhulu, ukuba unyango lwam aluyi kuphinda luphele? "
Andiyena uphando, okanye unontlalontle; Ndingumfundisi ngoqeqesho kunye namava. Ngoko isiluleko sam sokuqala xa umfazi andibuza malunga nokuba kwaye kufuneka athethe njani nomntwana wakhe ngesifo sakhe se-metastatic, kukucebisa ukuba athethe okokuqala ngumbhali okanye umcebisi, mhlawumbi umntu okhuthazwa ilungu leqela lakhe lokunakekelwa kwe-oncology. Isiphakamiso sam sesibini ngokuqhelekileyo sincoma ukufunda incwadi okanye ezimbini ngokuthetha nomntwana wakho ngomhlaza webele. Nangona iincwadi zingenalo indawo yokufuna iingcebiso zengcali, zinikeza ingcaciso malunga noko kunceda abantwana bajamelane nomhlaza womzali.
Kukho iincwadi ezimbalwa, ezibhaliweyo ngabasindileyo, bathetha oko abantwana banokulindela njengoko umama ehamba ngononophelo lomhlaza wesantya, kungekhona umhlaza we-metastatic. Ezi ncwadi zijongene nokutshintsha kwindlela yokubonakala komama, ukulahlekelwa kwamandla kunye nezinye izinto eziya kubachaphazela ubomi babantwana ngexesha lokunciphisa ixesha, unyango olusebenzayo.
Kukho iincwadi ezijongene nokuphela kobomi. Kuze kube kutshanje, andizange ndihlangabezane naziphi na iincwadi ezijongene nabantwana abancinci abajamelana nomhlaza womzali okwangoku uphathwa njengesifo esingapheliyo.
Encwadini yakhe, I-Cancer eyayingeke ihambe, iHadassa Field yaphumelela ukudibanisa ngempumelelo ibali malunga nezifo ze-metastatic, kunye ne "indlela" yokusebenzisa ibali ukufumana abantwana abancinco bathetha ngoyiko lwabo, umsindo wabo kunye iimvakalelo zokubandezeleka xa umzali enomdlavuza.
Ibali likhohlisayo. Amanqaku amaninzi ubude, kwaye ibandakanya imifanekiso eqhelekileyo, ngu-Christina G. Smith. Imizekeliso yekhaya kunye neentsapho ziyazi kakuhle abantwana abaninzi. Bazalisa ibali.
Ukulandela ibali, icandelo, elibhalwa ngu-Rinat R.Green, Psy. D., umntwana, umntwana osemtsha kunye noxanduva lwezentlalo ngeengxaki zentlalo unikeza iziphakamiso malunga nendlela yokusebenzisa ibali njengomzali, ugqirha okanye utitshala.
Ibali liphathelele inkwenkwana egama linguMax, uyise, kunye nomama wakhe onomdlavuza kwakhona, kunye nendlela abajamelana ngayo nomdlavuza wemetastatic njengentsapho. Ibali aliqapheli uhlobo lomama womhlaza wesifo semitha, olugcina lufanelekileyo kubaphulaphuli ababanzi abafundi.
Ugxininiso kwimbali yindlela uMain evakalelwa ngayo kuquka ukudideka, ukwesaba, umsindo kunye nentlungu. Ekugqibeleni ibali afunda ukujamelana nokungaqiniseki kokuphila kunye nesifo se-metastatic yomama wakhe.
I-Cancer eyayingayi kuhamba yintsebenzo yothando, ngoHadassa Field noSara Mosak Saiger ekukhunjweni koodade wabo, u-Ahuva uRachel Prager, owayefunyanwe ngumhlaza wesifo seminyaka emi-27 ubudala. U-Ahuva wayefuna ukuchaza imeko yakhe kubantwana bakhe abancinane, kodwa akakwazi ukufumana nayiphi na iincwadi ezathetha ngomhlaza we-metastatic.
I-Cancer eyayingayi kuhamba yaya kumgudu wokunceda abantwana base-Ahuva abancinci abancinci baqonde ukuba kwenzekani kumama wabo. U-Ahuva udlulile ngumhlaza wesifuba se-metastatic eminyakeni engama-32 ubudala.
Ibali libonisa ukukhathazeka kunye nokunyaniseka kwento eyenziwa ngumntwana omncinci ukuba umama wakhe unomdlavuza. Ibali liqinisekisa iimvakalelo umntwana analo kule meko. Ukungazi ukuba umzali uya kuba njani ukusuka ngolunye usuku ukuya kwesinye kukungathembeki kangako kumntwana. Ibali ligxininisa ukuhlala namhlanje, ukuvuyela iintsuku ezilungileyo nomama, nokwazi ukuba kuya kuba neentsuku ezingaziva kakuhle.
Icandelo "lenqaku" le ncwadi linikela ngolwazi olusebenzayo kubazali malunga nendlela kunye nantoni na yokuthetha nomntwana omncinci usebenzisa ibali njengesikhokelo kwingxoxo malunga nomhlaza wesisu se-metastatic. Ibonisa ukuba abagqirha basebenzisa ibali njengesixhobo sokusebenza kungekuphela komntwana kwintsapho, ngabanye, kodwa kwiiseshoni zentsapho ngokunjalo. Ootitshala, abacebisi abacebisi kunye neengcali zeengqondo zengqondo banokufumana ibali eluncedo xa bebambisana nomntwana ohlala nomhlaza wesibeleko somzali.
I-Cancer eyayingeke ihambe ikhona kwi-Amazon.