Ingaba intsapho okanye umhlobo, makube ngumxhasi wesifo somhlaza webele
Xa umhlobo okanye ilungu lentsapho lifumanisa ukuba unomdlavuza webele , ungenakuqinisekiswa ukuba ungathini okanye ungayinceda njani. Kodwa, ekugqibeleni, uthumela umyalezo wokuthi isiguli ngasinye somhlaza wesifuba sidinga ukuva-ukuba uya kuba khona kuye.
Ibhinqa elisandul 'ukufumana isifo somhlaza wesifuba ifuna yonke inkxaso ayifumanayo. Ukongezelela ukujamelana noyiko olusenokuba nesifo esichengeni ubomi, uyakhathazeka malunga nokuba umhlaza wakhe webele uya kuthinta njani intsapho yakhe, imeko yakhe yomsebenzi, imali yakhe, kunye nokunye okuninzi.
Kwakhona ukhathazeka malunga nokuba utshintsho emzimbeni wakhe luya kuthintela njani ukuba uzive njani ngaye kunye / okanye indlela umlingane wakhe amjonga ngayo.
Ukuxhaswa kwintsapho kunye nabahlobo banokwenza konke ukuma kumgangatho wobomi ngexesha lokonyango. Ukukubeka ngokulula, ukulawula ukwesaba nokujongana nemiphumo yecandelo leyeza unyango lula kakhulu ngenkxaso.
Inkxaso-ntsuku yoSuku
Ukuya unyango, ukubonwa ngugqirha, kunye nokujongana nemiphumo emibi yonyango kunokukwenza kube nzima ukunyamekela uxanduva lomntu ngamnye. Ngokuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yobudala kunye nemeko, umhlobo wakho unokufuna uncedo ngokunyamekela umntwana, ukuthenga, ukupheka nokuhamba.
Ekuqaleni, umhlobo wakho okanye ilungu lentsapho alinakukwazi ukuba luhlobo luni luza kunceda. Nasi ithuba lakho lokuqala lokuba khona. Phakamisa ukuba umncede ahlaziye oko akwenzayo ngeveki kunye nendlela le mi sebenzi inokusingathwa ngayo xa engayiva kakuhle ngokwenzayo.
Udinga umntu ukuba abe inkxaso, ngokukodwa njengoko edibana namalungu ekomiti lakhe lonyango-ngakumbi umntu onokuthatha amanqaku ngenxa yokuba unokukhathazeka kakhulu ukwenza njalo. Yaye ukuba unayo ixesha kwaye ukhululekile ngosuku lwonyango, iiyure ze- chemotherapy zingaba zide kwaye inkampani yenza ukuba bahambe ngokukhawuleza.
Kwakhona, umhlobo wakho ufuna umntu ukuba abe naye xa uthengisa iimpahla kunye nezinye izinto azakuzifuna ngexesha lokunyanga. Ukuthenga i-wig kuhlale kulula xa umhlobo angakhothabisa oko kubonakala kukuhle.
Inkxaso Yengqondo
Njengoko kubaluleke kakhulu kuncedo oluncedo, yintoni ehlala ifunekayo kwaye iyakwamkelwa kakhulu ngabahlobo kunye nosapho ukuba babekho ngenxa yokwesaba kunye nobuncwane bomdlavuza webele. Kukho ixesha elininzi ngexesha lokunyanga.
Ukuba umgama, umsebenzi, okanye ukuzinikela komsebenzi awuvumeli ukuba ubekhona kumntu, iifowuni eziqhelekileyo kunye nohambo lwe-Skype-ukusuka kumntu onokuphulaphula, kungekhona ukugweba, nokukhuphaza kunye nokukhuthaza-kunokuyenza yonke into kumntu onyango .
Ndenenhlanhla yokuba nomntu onjalo ngexesha lam lokuqala lomhlaza webele. Umhlobo wam, uJoanne, wandibiza imihla ngemihla ngeenyanga ezine, ukususela kwisifo sokuxilonga ukugqiba unyango olusebenzayo. Ukuba ndivakalelwa ukuthetha, wayeza kuphulaphula nje ukuba ndifuna ukuthetha. Ukuba andizange ndifune ukuthetha, wathi, "Hayi, ndiya kukubiza ngomso."
Kwaye kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuba ubekho umgama omde. Amakhadi anonwabo kunye neetekisi, ezithunyelwa ngeveki, ziyinyaniso zomoya. Izipho ezingasetyenziselwa unyango, njengencwadi, ziyakwamukelwa njalo.
Ukuba uhlala okanye usebenze kufuphi, memela umhlobo wakho ekudleni, i-movie, okanye nayiphi na into ejabulisayo eyindlela yokubalekela kuzo zonke izifo zomhlaza. Ukuba akava kakuhle, gcina inkampani yakhe ekhaya, nokuba ubukela ibhayisikobho, udlala umdlalo webhodi, okanye wenza nantoni na enamandla okwenzayo. Ukuba khona ngomhlaza wesibeleko somngane akulula, kodwa kuba khona kwenza ukuba kube lula kuye.