Iinkonzo zokufa i-doula zibonelela nendlela okuhluke ngayo kumlawuli womngcwabo
I-doula yokufa ngumntu owenza ukuba akwazi ukuncedisa umntu ofa kwaye, ngokuqhelekileyo, kunye nentsapho ngaphambili, ngexesha nangemva kokufa-edlalwa ngokuba yi-pan-death "spectrum," "inkqubo" okanye " uhambo "- ukwenzela ukubonelela ngenkxaso yomzimba, yengqondo, yengqondo nangokomoya.
Ngamanye amaxesha unxulumene nokufa kwekhaya okanye ukunyuka komngcwabo ekhaya, i-doula yokufa inika ngokubanzi / iinkxaso kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo zeenkonzo ezingafani kakhulu, kuxhomekeka kwiimeko, kodwa ngokubanzi zifuna ukubonelela ngokubanzi, izandla, indlela yokwelapha kwinkqubo yemvelo yokufa kwabo bonke abachaphazelekayo.
Nangona ikwazi ukuthatha iifom ezininzi, injongo ye-doula yokufa ngokuqhelekileyo inokunceda ukutshintshwa okanye "ibhuloho yegebe" kubini abaphilayo kunye nabafileyo abadalwa ngqalelo kwizonyango zokulondoloza ubomi ngokubhekiselele kwendima yabaqondisi bemngcwabo nabanye imisebenzi iqala emva kokufa.
Ngokuqhelekileyo okubhekiswe kuwo ngamagama ahlukeneyo-njengomsikazi wokufa, umqeqeshi wokuphela kokuphila, umkhokelo wokungcwaba, umhlahlandlela wokufa nokufa, thanadoula (inhlanganisela yolwimi lwe- thanatology kunye ne-doula), njl. naziphi na iinkonzo ezilandelayo, phakathi kwamanye amaninzi:
- Ngomntu ofayo : Ingaba kwindlu yentsapho, esibhedlele, esibhedlele okanye kwezinye izicwangciso, i-doula yokufa isoloko isinika isipho esibalulekileyo sokuthandana . Phakathi kwezinto ezininzi, oku kungabandakanya ngokubamba isandla somntu ofayo; ukuphulaphula ngokunyanisekileyo iimpendulo zakhe; ukuxoxa kunye nokuzama ukunikela iimpendulo / ukuthuthuzela kwimibandela yomntu / iingxaki / iimfuno; ubukele umabonwakude okanye ufunde incwadi ngokuvakalayo; ukuxubusha ngokugqiba-zobomi izifiso; ukuncedisa umntu osweleyo ukufumana isigqibo / ukufumana uxolo malunga neengxaki zangempela okanye ezicingelwayo; njl njl
- Kwala malungu entsapho : Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kwindlu yentsapho, esibhedlele , esibhedlele okanye kwenye indawo, i-doula yokufa ihlala isinika isipho sokuqhubela phambili kwi-pan-death spectrum , oko kukuthi, ngaphambili, ngexesha nangemva kokufa. Phakathi kwezinto ezininzi, oku kungabandakanya ukwenza imisebenzi eyahlukeneyo eqhelekileyo eqhutywa rhoqo ngumnakekeli wekhaya; ukuhlala kunye nomntu ofa ngenkathi amalungu omndeni engekho; ukuququzelela unxibelelwano oluxhasayo kunye / okanye iingxoxo phakathi kwabo bonke amaqela; ukuncedisa ekudaleni i-goodbyes enentsingiselo ngexesha leeyure eziseleyo zobomi; ukunceda intsapho ihlambe kwaye igqoke umfi; ukukhonza njengomthombo womngcwabo / ukucwangciswa kwezithuba kunye nokuhlala kweendawo; njl njl
Ngaba i-Doulas yokufa kunye nabaLawuli boMngcwabo bafana njani?
Njengoko kuphawuliwe ngasentla, ukufa i-doulas ngokubanzi kubhalela ikhefu phakathi kwemizamo yokuthintela ukufa okukwenzekayo kwaye emva kokufa. Ukuqhubeka kobukho kwinxalenye ye-doulas yokufa ngexesha lokutshintsha phakathi kobomi nokufa kuyahluka ngokucacileyo ukusuka kwendima yabaqondisi bamngcwaba, abaxanduva lwabo luqala ukuhamba emva kokufa (ngaphandle kokuba umfi okanye wakhe usapho ahlengahlengise kwaye mhlawumbi, wahlawula imali amalungiselelo amalungiselelo - imeko engaphambili ).
Ngokuxhomekeke kwiimeko kunye nezinga lokuthembela elikhoyo, enye i-doulas yokufa inokukunceda intsapho ekusebenzeni imisebenzi eyahlukeneyo yokufa emva kokuba iqhutywe ngabaqondisi bemngcwabo, njengokuhlamba nokugqoka umzimba; ukuqhuba ukubuka / ukubukwa komzimba (ongagqitywanga); ukuncedisa intsapho ekuhleleni amalungiselelo okungcwaba / iinkonzo ezithandayo; ukufikelela nokuzalisa iphepha eliyimfuneko; ukubonelela ngenkxaso; njl njl
Ngubani Oba Ukufa KweDola?
Abantu abavela kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi banokukhetha ukuba babe yi-doula yokufa, kubandakanywa nabacebisi beentlungu, abasebenzi be-hospice, abasebenzi bezentlalo, abaqeqeshi bezempilo, amalungu oobufundisi, ngabanye abaye babona amava okuguqula ukufa, njl njl.
Izizathu ziyahluka kodwa, ngokuqhelekileyo, nabani na ovakalelwa ukubiza ukuba bancede babini kunye nabathandekayo babo abasaphila ngexesha lokuguquka ukusuka ebomini ukuya ekufeni banokugqiba isigqibo sokuba i-doula yokufa.
Kutheni Ndingasebenzisa I-Doula Yokufa?
Nangona izizathu zihluka, abantu banokufumana ukuguqula ukulawula nokunyamekela umhlobo wabo ofileyo kumntu ongaziwayo emva kokufa (imeko efunekayo kwiimeko ezifanelekileyo ) okanye engacingi. Oku kunokwenzeka ngokukodwa xa ilungu lentsapho likhonza njengomnakekeli wekhaya ngexesha lokugula ixesha elide okanye isifo kwaye ngoko ke, kulindeleke ukuba ukufa kufike ngexesha elithile. Abanye banokuba banqwenela ukuqhuba umngcwabo wekhaya ngenxa yobuqu babo, iinkcubeko, izendalo okanye izizathu ezingokomoya.
Kungakhathaliseki isizathu esithile, ukufa kwe-doula kunokunceda ukuqhubela phambili okududuzayo ukuba ezinye iintsapho zifuna xa zijongene nokufa komntu othandekayo, kunye nokusebenza njengomthombo othembekileyo / umququzeleli.
Ngaba Unokufa Ngezidumbu Zase-Doulas?
I-doula yokufa ayikwazi ukuwugcoba umzimba ngaphandle kokuba ufumene uqeqesho lwezonyango kunye nelayisenisi yezobugcisa eziyimfuneko ukuba wenze kwimeko ethile yase-US. Umyalelo wokumisa umzimba awuyiyo inxalenye yokufa kwe-doula-training process.
Ngaba ukufa kwe-Doulas kuVunyelwe?
Ukufa kwe-doulas kunokwenzeka, kodwa kungekhona okokuba, ufumana uqeqesho oluvela kwinzuzo okanye inzuzo-engekho inzuzo okanye inomntu ngamnye, kodwa akukho nkqubo yezemfundo okanye yokuqeqeshwa i-doulas yokufa kufuneka iphume kwaye ayikho phantsi kolawulo, urhulumente okanye umyalelo .
Ngaba i-Doula yokufa ihlawulisa imali?
Kuxhomekeka kwezinye iindawo zokunyamekela. Olunye ufa lwe-doulas lusebenza ngokuzimeleyo kwaye lunokuthi lucaphule intlawulo ephathekayo kwiinkonzo zabo, okanye ngemini nganye okanye ngeyure nganye. Ukufa nganye i-doula ibeka imali yakhe, ngoko qiniseka ukuba ubuze malunga nazo zonke iindleko ezibandakanyeka phambili. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abanye ukufa baxhamla ixesha lokuvolontiya ixesha labo, rhoqo ngokubambisana namanye amaziko okunyamekela, kungekho ntlawulo kwintsapho.