Xa unesifo se-herpes , ungaba nzima ukuvelisa imeko yakho kunye nomlingane omtsha. Nangona i-herpes yintsholongwane, ixhomekeke kakhulu kwintlalo , kwaye abantu abaninzi bayesaba ukuba banokutshatyalaliswa ngenxa yeemeko zabo. Nangona kuyinyaniso ukuba abanye abantu abayi kukwazi ukubona i-herpes ye-genital diagnosis, abaninzi abantu abahlala ne-herpes baye bafumana uthando.
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Into ebaluleke kakhulu ongayenza xa utyhafile, "ndiyichazela njani umlingane wam ndiye?" uzifundise malunga ne-herpes yomzimba kunye nokudluliselwa kwayo. Ngaleyo ndlela unokuphendula nayiphi na imibuzo yeqabane lakho . Ungabathumela kwakhona kwizixhobo eziphandwa ngokuphandle, njengamaphepha, ukuze ufumane iimpendulo ngokwabo, kwaye unokufuna ukuba neempapasho zamaphepha ancedo anjengomxholo we- herpe apha okanye i-CDC Herpes Fact Sheet.
Ngezantsi, ndibhale iskripthi ukunceda uqalise ukucinga malunga neminye imiba echaphazelekayo ekutsheleni umntu onayo i-herpes. Enye into ekufuneka uyiqwalasele kukuba kukulungele ukuchaza ngaphambi kokuba uhlele naluphi na uhlobo lolwabelana ngesondo, ukunika ixesha lakho iqabane ukuba lugcine ulwazi. Ngaloo ndlela unokuphepha omnye wenu owenza nantoni na oya kuzisola ngayo ngokushisa komzuzu. Xa usanda kuqalisa ukutshata, i-herpes ingabonakala ngathi yinto engenakwenzeka, kodwa ayifanele ibe.
Ndingamxelela Njani Umlingane Wam Unayo I-Herpes?
Ndiyathanda wena, kwaye ndiyathanda indlela olwalamano lobuhlobo ngayo, kodwa ngaphambi kokuba sitshatile kufuneka ndixelele ukuba i-__ eminyaka edlulileyo ndafunyaniswa ukuba ndine-herpes yobulili. Ndiyazi ukuba ukuva igama elithi herpes likhupha abantu abaninzi ngaphandle, kodwa ngaphambi kokuba nisoyike kukho ezinye izinto endifuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba uyazi ngesifo. Iyokuqala kukuba i-herpes iqheleke kakhulu - i-CDC ilinganisela ukuba phantse omnye kwabafazi abane kunye nomntu oyedwa kumadoda asibhozo anama-herpes omzimba, nangona bambalwa kakhulu bayazi ukuba banayo kuba oogqirha abayifaki rhoqo ukuba senza ezinye iimvavanyo ze-STD. Kubantu abaninzi i-herpes ayibangeli nayiphi na impawu, yintoni eyenza ixhaphake.
Andizi ukuba uhlolwe i-herpes, kodwa ufumanisa ukuba indlela endibangela ngayo ukuba ndikholelwe ekubaluleka kokuvavanya ngokwam, kwaye ndicele ukuba amaqabane am ukuba ahlolwe ngaphambi kokuba siqale ngesondo ukuze sazi ukuba simi. Kungesabisa ukulinda ukufumana iziphumo, okanye ukujongana nabo, kodwa ndicinga ukuba kulungele ukuphatha abantu endikukhathazayo ngendlela endingafuna ukuphathwa ngayo, kwaye oko kuthetha ukunyaniseka nokunyaniseka malunga nolwazi endicinga ngalo banelungelo lokukwazi. Ndingathanda ukuba nesondlo kunye nawe kwixesha elizayo, ngoko ke ukuba ungakhange uvavanywe kutshanje kuya kuba kuhle ukuba unokucinga ukuba wenze njalo. Ndiyathanda wena, okanye mhlawumbi andiyi kuba nale ngxoxo engathandekiyo.
Ekugqibeleni, ekubeni ndifuna ukulala nawe ekugqibeleni, kukho enye into endifuna ukuyinyusa. Nangona kungekho ndlela eqinisekisiwe yokukhusela i-herpes transmission phakathi kwabantu ababini, unyango olukhuselekileyo lwemihla lunokunceda ukunciphisa ukudluliselwa, kwaye ndiyithatha (ngokuqwalasela ukuthatha / ukungathathi). Ukusebenzisa izithintelo kuzo zonke iintlobo zesini, kuquka ukulala ngomlomo , kunokuncedisa ukunciphisa ukudluliselwa kwaye ndicinga ukuba kufuneka sicwangcise ukwenza njalo. Ndiza kukwazisa ukuba ndicinga ukuba ndiba neqhekeza ukuze sikwazi ukwenza ezinye izinto.
Ndiyathemba ukuba andiyikwesaba. Nceda uthathe ixesha lokufunda malunga ne-herpes indawo ethile kunye nolwazi oluchanekileyo uze ucinge ngento endikuxelele yona. Ngeli xesha ithetha ... ufuna ukufumana i-dessert?