Abazali be-autism bathanda ntoni? Nangona wonke umntu ehlukile, amathuba okufumana izinto ezithile (okanye umntu owaziyo) kule mizekelo "yomzali".
Iintlobo zabazali abanezingane ezigunyazayo
UMartyr. Unomntwana onokukhubazeka, kwaye uza kwenza nantoni na enokwenzeka - kungakhathaliseki ukuba kunzima kangakanani, kubiza, okanye kubuhlungu-ukumnceda.
Ufune zonke ugqirha, ugqirha, kunye neyeza kunyango elingama-mile, kwaye ucinga ngokugqithiseleyo ngokuhamba ngelizwe elifanelekileyo ukuze udibanise ingcali ye-autism eCalifornia ezayo iphakanyiswa kakhulu.
Ukuzinikezela kwakho kuphelele , oko kuthetha ukuba kunokuba nzima kakhulu ukuba ufumane ixesha, amandla, imali, okanye umnqweno wokuzifunela umdla okanye ufumaneke kunoma ubani ngaphandle kwe-autistic child yakho.
Ummeli. Uyayazi umthetho, kwaye uyazi ukuba umntwana wakho unelungelo lokufikelela kwiinkonzo ezininzi zeenkonzo, iinkqubo, inkxaso kunye namathuba. Uzibona wena "njengevili elincinci" elizimisele ukufumana igrisi. Uye kuzo zonke iindibano zemfundo ezizodwa kunye ne-webinar, uza kwiintlanganiso ze-IEP ezizixhobile ngemigangatho yamanqaku, uyintloko yeemfuno zeemfuno ezizodwa zabazali kwisithili sakho, kwaye ufumana uqeqesho kwabanye abazali ngamalungelo abo kunye ( xa kuyimfuneko) indlela yokufumana igosa elifanelekileyo.
Umkhosi. Unomntwana ofuna ukukhuselwa kwakho, kwaye - njengengonyama okanye ingonyama - uya kunika loo khuselo. Ukulungele, uzimisele, kwaye unako ukuthatha inzondo, ootitshala, izithili zesikolo - nabani na osongela ukudala nayiphi na ingxaki kumntwana wakho.
Unokuthi ube nenkqubo yokwakha "umkhosi" wabancedi ngendlela yabazali abanomdla ofanayo ababona abantwana babo njengamaxhoba angabakho kwihlabathi eliyingozi.
OyiNgcwele. Unomuvo wokuthi umntwana wakho eneemfuno ezizodwa uyisipho - kwaye unako ukukwazi ukuba ngumzali womntwana wakho. Uzinikezela ngokunyamekela umntwana wakho, kwaye kunzima ukuvuma xa izinto zinzima.
Unokukhetha ukuba "uzincame" wena nomntwana wakho kwimingeni yehlabathi ngokubambelela kwiimeko owaziyo ukuba uya kuphumelela.
Umakhi. Umntwana wakho nge-autism ufuna uhlobo oluthile lonyango - ukuze uqeqeshelwe ukubonelela. Uziva ukuba umntwana wakho ufuna uhlobo oluthile lwemfundo, ngoko uqala isikolo. Ufuna umkhiqizo womntwana wakho ongenakuwufumana kwimarike - ngoko uhlakulele ngokwakho. Uyivunguvungu yomsebenzi, kodwa unokufumanisa ukuba ukhathele kakhulu ukufumana iziqhamo zakho zokusebenza.
Uxhoba . Ezo zonke iindwendwe ezinomdla eziqhelekileyo, abantwana abaphumelelayo. Kodwa ungumzali womntwana onokukhubazeka ngokusisigxina. Oontanga bakho bonke baya phambili kwimisebenzi yabo, kodwa umsebenzi wakho uye waxhaswa ukuba uhlangabezane nabagqirha, i-IEPs, ulwalamano kunye nabo kunye noxinzelelo lomtshato. Nangona uthanda umntwana wakho we-autistic, kukho inxalenye yakho ecinga ukuba uya kuba nolonwabo ngakumbi kwaye uphumelele ngaphandle kwakhe.
Umphandi . Ubusuku bonke, ubusuku bonke, kude kube ngu-2 ekuseni, uthabatha kude kwikompyutha edibanisa iiforam ukuze ufumane ezimbalwa iinkcazo zeenkcukacha malunga nemithi ye-autism. Nsuku zonke "uxoxisana" nabazali odibana nabo kumaqela enkxaso ye-autism nakwiiofisi zeengcali, bebuza malunga nokunyulwa kwabo kunyango, ogqithisileyo, inkqubo yesikolo kunye nootitshala.
Iifowuni zakho zizaliswe ngeenombolo zefowuni kunye needilesi zewebhu. Uyazi ngakumbi malunga ne-autism kunye ne-autism yenkxaso kunye nezokwelapha kunokuba zininzi iingcali-kodwa usenomuva ngathi uziva ngendlela yakho ebumnyameni.