Ukufumana ukuxilongwa rhoqo kuthatha ixesha lomntu onesifo esinqabileyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo kukho iimvavanyo ezininzi zezokwelapha ezibandakanyekileyo kwaye zihlolwe ngabagqirha abangaphezu kweyodwa. Unokwenza uhambo lwenkqubo ekhethekileyo (njenge- CT scan ) engenziwanga esibhedlele kufuphi nekhaya lakho okanye ukuba neesampuli zegazi zithunyelwe kwenye yeebhubhoratri ezimbalwa ezenza uvavanyo lwakho ugqirha ugqirha kuwe.
Unokugqibela ukulinda ixesha elide ukufumana ingcali okanye ezo ziphumo zokuhlolwa kwegazi ukubuya kwilebhu okanye ukucwangcisa inkqubo. Unokufumana uzive ungaphelelwa ngumonde, udidekile okanye udidekile xa ulindele ukuxilongwa .
Ekugqibeleni, usuku luza-uya kudibana nogqirha, iziphumo zokuvavanya uvavanyo, kwaye uya kukuxelela ukuxilongwa. Abahlobo kunye nosapho bakho unokucinga ukuba uya kuvuyiswa ekugqibeleni uyazi. Nangona kunjalo, usenokuba uzive ngokwahlukileyo. Le yindlela eyenziwa ngayo ngokuqhelekileyo ekugqibeleni ukufumanisa ukuxilongwa kwakho.
Ukutshitshiswa
Nasi umzekelo. Unayo indawo engavamile ebusweni bakho kwaye uye kwidermatologist ucinga ukuba luhlobo lwepimple okanye i-mole. Ujonge nje, ugqirha uthi, "Kubonakala njengomhlaza." Uqala ukukhala uze uthi, "Ubonakala ngathi?" Awulindelanga ukuba ukuxilongwa.
Ngamanye amaxesha unokufumana ukuxilongwa okunzima kakhulu ukuva, njengesifo esingavamile esingenakho unyango, okanye esinye esiza kufutshane nesikhathi sakho sokuphila.
Unokutshatyalaliswa emva kokuva ukuxilongwa ukuba awuyiva enye into yokuba ugqirha uthi emva kwayo.
Ukudideka
Kubantu abafumene izifo ezingavamile, ukuphendula ngokufanayo emva kokuva ukuxilongwa kukudideka. " Ndikhoyo. . . yintoni na kwakhona? "Kwaye" Yiyiphi na loo nto ? "Ziphendule ngokufanayo .
Awuyi kuqonda isifo sakho ngokukhawuleza. Kungathatha ixesha lokufunda ukuba isifo esingumzimba, umzekelo, nokuba sichaphazela njani umzimba. Abahlobo bakho kunye nosapho baya kudideka kwakhona kuba bengakaze bakuve oko unakho.
Uncedo
Nangona unikwe ukuxilongwa okunzima, unokukhululeka ekugqibeleni uyazi ukuba yintoni. Ngoku uyazi ukuba ulindele ntoni kunyango kwaye unengqiqo engcono yeziphumo. Ukuba ubomi bakho bube sisibambe ngenkathi uhamba kwinkqubo yokuxilongwa, unokufumanisa ukuba unokuqalisa ukwenza izicwangciso kwakhona.
Usizi nosizi
Ingxaki yokuxilonga, ingakumbi ukwesongela ubomi, intlungu kunye nentlungu kunokuba nemizwa enamandla kakhulu. Usizi kuthetha iimvakalelo ezinzulu zokulahleka. Unokucinga oku ngenxa yokulahlekelwa yimpilo yakho okanye ukukwazi ukukhululeka kwintlungu okanye ukuba ungekho malunga neziganeko ezizayo njengomntwana wakho ogqityiweyo kwikholeji okanye ukuhamba nentombazana yakho phantsi kwekhisithi emtshatweni wakhe. Usenokuba nemizwa yokuba " Kutheni na? "Okanye" Kutheni ngoku? "Unokubuza imibuzo yakho yokholo kunye nokwazi kwakho ukujamelana nale sigulo. Unokufumana uzila ngokulula.
Iziganeko eziqhelekileyo
Zonke ezi zivakalelo ziyindlela eziqhelekileyo emva kokuba ufumanise ukuxilongwa kwakho.
Unokufumana omnye okanye zonke, kwaye unokudlula kwiimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo. Kwabaninzi abantu, ukuthetha nabahlobo, intsapho, umntu wobufundisi, okanye umcebisi unceda ukuba bajamelane nale mvakalelo kwaye banike ithuba lokuxubusha ukuxilongwa kunye nendlela ekuchaphazela ngayo ubomi babo.