Omnye oyisisithulu kunye nezinye izinto azikho
Nangona abaninzi abantu abayizithulu batshata nabanye abantu abayizithulu, baninzi banxulumano nabantu abavayo. Olu lwalamano, olusenokuba luqale ngaphambi kokuba umntu osisithulu alahlekelwe ukuva, udla ngokuxakeka ngemiba enjengokuthetha ngolwimi lwezandla (SL). Amalungu eSigqeba acebisana ngolwalamano oluvayo (iintetho zilandelayo):
- "Ndiyatshatile indoda endizwayo engayi kufunda isayinithi ukuba uthethe nam, ndiyifumene imfunde emva kweminyaka engama-6 ndidiniwe ngumlomo."
- LAFUN69
"umyeni ... ekugqibeleni uhamba ujikeleze ukwenza i-fingerspelling ngezikhathi ezithile ... kunye nomqondiso omncinane apha nakhona. Akakhululekile kuyo kwaye akaze abe ..."
- FUZZYPEN
"... umyeni unzima kakhulu ukufundela i-lip ... esethenjisiwe ngaphambi kokuba sitshatile ukuba sifunde iimpawu kodwa emva kokuba sitshatile, kwakukuphela kweempawu zakhe zokufunda kuba kulula ukuba akhulume ...
... wayeza kutshata naye kwakhona ... angatshatanga kuze kube yilapho ekwazi kakuhle ... izakhono zam zenze kube lula xa sitshatile. Le ngxaki eqhelekileyo "kwimitshato edibeneyo." ... uhlale phantsi uze umxelele ukuba kufuneka afunde ngenxa yokuba abafana abanxibelelwano. Kulula ukuba afunde iimpawu kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba ufunde ukuva ... "
- BLUIZJUDY
"... wayengafuni ukufunda i-SL ... kwakungekho nto enzima kum kodwa kodwa ngamanye amaxesha andingayiqondi. Into endiyenzayo ukuze ndimfunde SL yayiyi .. Qala ukuthetha naye kwi-SL kwaye wenze njengokungaqondi nonke ukuba uzama ukuthetha nawe ngaphandle kokusayinela okanye ukwenza ukuba aphinde aphinde aphinde aphinde aphelelwe yinto yokuphindaphinda aze acele uncedo ekufundeni i-SL.
Ukuba uthe wahlanya okanye wenza izizathu ngoko akafanelekanga kuwe ... "
- DEE72072
"nditshatile umfazi ovayo ... akazange aqale ukulahlekelwa ukuva kwendoda ndide ndibe ngu-15, ngoko ke andizange ndifune ukusayina ngelixa ndikhula. .
... Uyancatshukiswa xa ndingayiqondi into enje.
Ukuba kufuneka aphinda into engaphinda ibe yinto enokuhlazisa, ngakumbi xa sisekho nkampani, kuba uqala ukucaphukisa kunye kwaye ndiqala ukuziva ndixakekile, okwenza kube nzima nakakhulu ukuba ndigxilise kwaye ndiqonde oko wathi ..
buhlungu kakhulu ... ukuba ndibe nomfazi wam ngokukrakra kum kungenze ndive ndikhuselekile kum ... "
- ROWLANDT1
"watshata nomntu ovayo, uyisebenzisela kuphela ukuthetha kunye nami kwi SL kodwa kamva ndisebenzisa ilizwi lam ... kubalulekile ukuxelela umyeni wakho ukuba uzizwa njani ... mhlawumbi umnike amanyathelo ambalwa njengovavanyo lokufunda / ukuthetha, ukuba Wathi la magama alandelayo kungekho lizwi.Qaphela ukuba umyeni wakho ucinga ukuba uthe ndikuthandayo, Indlovu yeNdlovu, i-Olive Juice, umbono we siqithi, ndiza kuba neenombolo ezimbini ... uphawu kunye nomhlobo wakho, ukuba intsapho yakho ikubuza into othetha ngayo kunye nomhlobo wakho, ungaxeleli nanye kwishishini labo. Baya kuqonda indlela oziva ngayo ... Ngoku andiyi kuziva ndishiywe xa nditya isidlo kunye nosapho lwam ... "
- CILJ
"Umfazi ovayo kwaye uyasayinela kakuhle." Wathatha iiklasi ze-SL ukuze adibanise kangcono. Undithanda kakhulu kangangokuba ukuthetha kwethu kubaluleke kakhulu kulwalamano lwethu ...
Ukuba uyakuthanda kakhulu kwaye anikezele kuwe, ngoko kufuneka afunde.
Akukulungele ukuba usebenze nzima ukumqonda ... Thenga i-SL incwadi uze uyinike kwaye ubone ukuba ufunda ntoni na. Ukuba ushiya le ncwadi kwitafile yekhofu, yizisa le ncwadi ukuba ulale ... Ukuba uguqa uze utshele isizathu sokuba uzive njani. Bhalisela kuye.
... ukuzisa abanye bakho abangenazithulu phezu kwendlu yakho kwaye usayine. Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba kwenzekani ... ke mnike incwadi yeS SL okanye incwadana encwadana. Yaye uthi, "Ukuba undithandile kakhulu ke ngoko ndidibana ne-half half way."
- WAR78MAN
"Umyeni usenzile into yokumemeza nayo ... kufuneka uyihoxise ... vula iitafile ... umyeni wayedla ukundinxela ukuba ufuna uncedo lokufumana into ... unamathele ikhanda lakhe kwikherinethi ... ukuba ndize uncedo.
Wayecaphukisa ngokwenene amaxesha ambalwa kuba ndibonakala ndingamnaki. Xa wayenesikhathi sokupholisa kwaye ndamdinga into ethile, ndiza kusayina ngasemva kwakhe; uze uthinte ihlombe lakhe kwaye usayine ngokugxininisa ngakumbi - ukumxelela ukuba wayengandityhili. Wayesithi ... wayengenakukubona emva kwakhe kwaye ndathi ndingenakukwazi ukuthetha ndayifunda xa wayenentloko yakhe kwikhedi. Kuthatha ixesha, umonde, ukuhleka, kunye neenyembezi kodwa sasisebenza kwaye sitshatile iminyaka engama-26 ngoku. "
- FUZZYPEN
"Wayemcela incwadi ye-SL ukuze afunde into ethile engalunganga engazange ayenze emva kwayo yonke into enokuthetha nje imfutshane nje ... Ingenza ndibandezeleke ukuba ndingabakhathazeki ukuqikelela ukuba angaba nomona kakhulu ukubona Abahlobo abangezithulu kwaye engenayo enye, ngoku uqala ukuva ukuva (HOH), ukulahlekelwa ukuva kwakhe xa ndihamba nabantu abayizithulu ufuna ukwazi oko sithetha ... ukunyamezela xa engathethi sayine ... "
- DEAFBABE42
"ndatshata nomntu oneminyaka engama-19 ndatshata." Xa ndidibana naye, ndamxelela, kwakufuneka afunde njenge-asl ... wayengayi kufunda omnye umntu ngomlomo wam ebomini bam. ...
uxolo ukubona abanye abaye bazinyanzela ukuba bafunde umlomo wabo womtshato. Abantu abaninzi abayizithulu baxela ukuba umtshato wethu uyahluleka ngenxa yokuba uva kwaye ndivayo ... "
- JAZ16
"HOH ... wenqaba ukufunda i-SL ngokunjalo ... imeko enokukhathazeka kakhulu kuthi sonke." Ndiyifanele ndixelele rhoqo ukuba ndikhangele kum, uphinde ndibuyele oko akuthethileyo. Sonke sathetha, kwaye ekugqibeleni saqonda ukuba kunzima ntoni kum, kwaye kukukhathazeka kangakanani ukuba sithembele emlonyeni sifunde sisodwa.
Sinqume ukuba ngokukhawuleza ukuba intombi yethu ikhule ngokwaneleyo siya kumfundisa i-SL, ugqibe ekubeni afunde. "
- KRS10
"Akazange enze umgudu wokufunda ukusayina ... Ngethamsanqa, ndakwazi ukuthetha kakuhle kodwa kwimizi yeqela, kwakubuhlungu gqitha kum ... wayengangamhloneli ngokungafundi ulwimi" lwam "okanye ukunyamekela ngeemvakalelo zam okanye izicelo zam. Ndade ndithenga incwadi yeS SL kodwa leyo ayizange isebenze ... yayiqhawula ... "
- MISSYB26
"Ufuna ndifunde ukuthetha ... ngeempawu ezingenakuzenzayo. Sisebenzisa ipeni kunye nephepha kunye nokufunda okufutshane ukuthetha.
- HO1234
"... ekufuneka ndibhale yonke into ngoko ndibe ngcono xa ndifunda ngomlomo kodwa kusekho ixesha apho ndifuna nje ukulibala kwaye ndihambe kodwa andinakwenza oko ndimthandayo ... njengokuthanda ukuva xa eyazi ukuba awukwazi ukutshata nazi ukuba uyisithulu kwaye awukwazi ukuthetha. "
- LAFUN69
"Utyikitya kancane ...
sasineengxaki zokunxibelelana ... ngokudabukisayo, siqhawule umtshato ngoku ke siqhubeke kunye naye kwaye simfundise ... "
- SOFTSUMMER37
"Kutheni abantu abangevayo bendoda beva abantu? ... bakholelwa ukuba uthando luya kuthatha yonke into ... ngeli xesha kwakungabalulekanga .... uthando lwaluye ... Ngoku ixesha liye ladlula ixesha. Uthando lwendidi luphela? Ngaba ulwimi olubaluleke ngakumbi kunalo uthando obenalo ekuqaleni?
Abaninzi abambini abadala baya kuthi ... akufanele balindele ukuba umntu atshintshe emva komtshato .... kodwa kwakhona abanye bangathi xa ekuthanda, uya kukwenza nantoni na .... "
- DDDD86
"... ukuba bakuthanda ngokwenene baya kuthanda ukwenza okulungileyo kunxulumano lwakho kwaye bafunde indlela yokunxibelelana kunye nokwenzeka .Umyeni wam wayesaba kakhulu xa sitshatile ukuba ndiza kumshiya kungekudala xa ndifumanisa ubukhulu bokulahlekelwa kwakhe kwindlebe kunye nokuba kungenzeka ukuba i-100% yesithulu ibuyele, ndamxelela ukuba ayikukhathalelanga ... Ndasayinwa ukuba ndifunde i-SL ... nangona evakalelwa kukuba akuyimfuneko, uye wafunda ukufunda kakuhle ... ukuva kwakhe kuya kwanda kwaye ndifuna ukulungele ukumnceda. "
- DEIDRAHICKS
"... inxungukisiwe kwintlungu yomsindo kunye nomsindo kubantu abatshatayo ... iminyaka engama-27 eyatshatileyo ... yayinomsindo, ewe, enxulumene nokungakwazi kwam ukuzwa ngezinye ixesha, kodwa AKUBA ngenxa yokuba engakwazi ukuthetha!"
- LOLUV8
"Akusiyo isisithulu, okanye ukuva - malunga nento enabelana ngayo ... babe nobudlelwane namantombazana athetha ...
... Kubaluleke kangakanani ukuva okanye ukuzithulu? Kubantu abangezithulu, yinto yabo yintloko yokuba ... Umtshato ofanelekileyo omnye apho umntu unokuthetha ngokukhululekile, kwaye ngokucacileyo; ukuze umntu akwazi ukwabelana ngobomi omnye nomnye ... Ngaba unako ukudibana kunye nomnye nomnye, kwaye unganciphisa? "
- WESBROWN18
"Ndandicinga ukuba ndizihlaziye kunye naye xa ndifumene nzima ukuthetha.
Ndineenkcenkceshelo ezongeziweyo zebakala lokuba akafundekanga okanye abhale ngokucokisekileyo ... okokuqala waxoxwa ngumxube we-lipreading, ukukhomba, kwaye emva kokungaqondani okungafaniyo, sasilawula. Ndifumene ukuba senze izibonakaliso zethu kodwa ndathatha ikhosi ye-BSL ndafumana ukuba ndiyakwazi ukuchazela izinto ngokucace ngakumbi kuye. Kungekudala bekufuneka abe novavanyo emsebenzini ... bekungekho nkonzo ngaphakathi kwenkampani yombhalisi. Ndinikela ukungena kwaye ndiyihumushe ... Kwaye kubonakala ukuba akafumani uqeqesho ayenelungelo kuba babengenakukwazi ukuthetha naye okanye baqonde indlela engcono yokuqhubela phambili ... yiya kulo kodwa lungele uthathe ikhosi ngokusayinwa njengoko iya kuphucula ubuchule bakho kunye nokwenza ukuba ukhululeke ngakumbi. "
- JULIEKAVANAG
"ngumntu omnandi kakhulu wevaphuli ... Xa sodwa, izinto zikhulu, kwaye sinoxesha elihle kunye.
Kodwa xa sifika kumaqela (malunga nokuva abantu) -NXIYA ndishiya ingxoxo. Bathetha ngokukhawuleza, kwaye andinakukwazi ukubamba oko bathi ... inkwenkwekazi ayifuni ukuba ndizalise into ekuthethwa ngayo, okanye undixelele, ngaphandle kokuba ndibe nento enkulu malunga nayo.
Leveki eledlule, siya kubona abanye abahlobo bakhe, kwaye ndashiya ngaphandle kwintetho malunga neeyure ezingama-2. Ndandibuhlungu gqitha, ndandithumela ekhaya ndikhala.
Iqabane lam liyakwazi ukucima nje, nangona wenza kakuhle. Ndisebenzisa i-ASL njengolwimi lwam olusisiseko, kwaye ndingathetha encinci ... intsapho engenakudla i-fingerspells kimi kumphakathi, okanye ngabahlobo bayo. Ngaba iintloni? "
- COCOCUTIEDEA
"Ukuba ndandithandana nomfazi oyisithulu ndingayi kumkhuphela ngaphandle ...
Ngaba umxelele indlela eyenza uzive ungabandakanywa kwiimeko zentlalo?
... Ukuba akahlengahlengi kwaye akunike inhlonipho oyifaneleyo, ke ... ixesha lokufumana isithandwa esitsha.
njengamanje ukufunda i-ASL ngeencwadi kunye nezifundo zevidiyo. Ndiya kuthandana nolwimi kwaye ndiya kuqhubeka ndiqhubela phambili ... "
- AQUABLUE1966 " Ulwalamano oluthulu-Uvaphu luya kuphumelela ... lwakutshanje lubandakanyeka nentombazana / Intsizana engenakukhubazeka ... ukulahlekelwa kwindlebe kwakungeyona nto inokusiphulaphula ...
... Nangona sasiqhelana ngamaxesha amaninzi, wandinceda ngokufunda ukuSayina kwaye ndakwazi ukunxulumana nabahlobo bakhe abazizithulu ...
Ngamanye amaxesha wayengaqondi kakuhle xa sithetha ngomlomo ... Ngoko-ke ukunyamezela kokuVeza kunye neziThulu kubalulekile (ngokukodwa xa ukuTyikitya kwe-Bloke's Signing kungekho kakuhle ...)
... ukuba umntu oyisithulu uyabonisa, ngoko umntu ovelayo kufuneka akwazi ukuthetha okanye ukufunda ukuthetha kwiSandla kwakhona. Akuyona nje umba wokuqonda, kodwa uthetha ukuba umntu ophulaphulayo uxelela into yegama lakhe-ulwimi lwabo ... "
- BLOKE9
"Umtshato unokuba ngumxininiso kwi-hoh / kwintetho ngenxa yokuba umntu ukhumbula ukuba i-hoh kunye nokuva akuveli kwimvelaphi efanayo. Ndakufuneka ndifundise kwisigqibo esisiseko ngelixa ndandisakhula kwaye akazange akwenze. Kufuneka kufane nomtshato ukuba usebenze. Ewe, imitshato engathethi ihlala kunye ixesha elide ngenxa yokuqonda.
- BOZOGIRL
"lahlekelwa yindlebe yam ngokuzenzekelayo kwaye iphelele malunga no-8 ... yayibuhlungu kum.
Ndathunyelwa esikolweni kwisithulu apho i-SL yayingenayo inketho kwaye, kum, ukufunda iil kunye nenkulumo kuye kwindlela yokuhamba yonke le minyaka. Andizange ndizisole ngokungayifuni ukufunda i-SL, nangona uvavanyo lwe-lip-reading, ngezinye izikhathi lunzima kakhulu ...
Ndatshatile, iminyaka emininzi, kwindoda eyayivayo.
Nangona sineengxaki ezininzi, ukuthetha kwakungekho nje kubo ngaphandle kokuba inyaniso ... isicaciso sakhe esiFulentshi esomeleleyo yenza izinto zibe nzima ... "
- Umhambi
"ndandithandana nentombi yam isisithulu ngokupheleleyo iminyaka emibili ngoku. Sinobudlelwane obukhulu kwaye ndiye ndandifumana kakuhle kwiS SL ... funda izithuba ezimbalwa malunga nezibini ezizithulu / ezivayo zibuhlungu kwaye zivakalelwa xa ziphuma kunye namaqela abahlobo kunye ne-Gf kunye nam sele sineengxabano malunga nale nto. Ndiyitshintsha yonke into enokuyenza ngayo, kodwa into engakwazi ukuyibona (kwaye ndicinga ukuba akuyena yedwa) kukuba ndingumntu ongu-1/1 engqondweni kunye Izandla ezi-2 kuphela. Akukho ndlela enokwenzeka ngayo ukuba ndime apho kwaye nditshintshe yonke into ethethwa phakathi kwe-3 okanye 4 okanye abantu abangakumbi, ukuthetha ilizwi athethayo, nencoko yam kunye nabangani bam, kwaye ulandele ukuhamba kunye nokuzibandakanya kunye naye kwimizuzu yonke yaloo nto. Ndihlala ndiyenza konke okusemandleni ukuba ndimbandakanye kwaye ndimyeke ukuba azi into eyenzekayo, kodwa akufanele kube kuphela kwiqabane elivayo okanye i-bf okanye i-gf ukuba ibandakanye isithulu okanye isithulu Umntu. Yenza umzamo weqela ngabo bonke abandakanyekayo apho uya khona ... xa siphumela ngaphandle ds ndibazise ukuba i-gf yam iyakwazi ukufunda nokuthetha naye xa ifuna.
Ndibaxelele ukuba ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka bahlawule ngenxa yokuba ulahlekile oko kwenzekayo. Ngaloo ndlela wonk 'ubani uzizwa ekhululekile kwaye baqonda okungakumbi ... Ukuba abantu bayaqonda ngakumbi, ngoko baya kwenza umzamo omkhulu wokuzama ukuthetha, kunokuba bangazi njani kwaye besabe okanye bavelele ukuthetha. "
- Umhambi
"ubudlelwane nomguquleli we-SL, ngoko kunjalo luncedo.Kodwa kukho rhoqo iingxaki zoqhagamshelwano phakathi kwabantu ababini. Kwenzeka ntoni ngoku kukuba sinomngeni woqhagamshelwano kwiilwimi ezimbini ezahlukeneyo!"
- Umhambi
"HOH ... watshata nomntu ovayo (34yrs) ... Ndiyifunda imilomo ngokubanzi kwaye ndiyazi i-SL ... Omnye kwenye inkulu!
Kodwa, kwiqela, ndilahlekile. Uninzi lwabantu abangamaziyo ndicinga ukuba ndiyingozi, okanye ukuba ndibahoyile. Kodwa, andiyiva oko bathethayo ngoko andiyi kujika okanye ndiyazi ukuba bathetha nam ... bavame ukuva abantu bethetha kodwa abazi ukuba bathini ... abantu bakholelwa ukuba mna HOH kuba ndiyazi kakuhle ubugcisa bokufunda umlomo kwaye ndingayiqonda. Oko kukude, bajike kwaye andinakuboni. "
- Umhambi
"watshata nomntu we-HOH ... wenqaba ukufunda i-SL, ndiva kwaye ndiyazi i-SL, ndifunde iminyaka eyi-15 kwaye yinto yam enkulu ekolishi. ngaphambi kokuba alahleke ngokupheleleyo ukuva kwakhe ... uzame ukumemeza, ukungahoywa, nokuba akathethi naye, kwaye akayi kufunda ukusayina ... mhlawumbi ngelinye ilanga uya kufuna ukufunda ukuthetha kunye nezingane zakhe.
Abaqabane ababaxhasi ukuba bavumeleke. Kubenza bazive bexakekile xa ukhwaza kwaye wenza konke oku. Baza kufunda xa bexhalabile ngokwaneleyo ngaphandle kokuthetha. "
- Umhambi
"nditshatile iminyaka engama-10 ndendoda engisithulu. Ndafunda iS SL kwangethuba kwaye ndaqhubeka emva kokuba sitshatile kuba yayingumsebenzi wam. I-SL yenza kube lula ukunxibelelana nomyeni wam ... kucacisa ukuba uthathe umyeni wakho nawe ngexesha elizayo xa uya kuvavanyo lokuvavanya.
Yenza i-aphoyintimenti ngokukhawuleza kwaye wenze ukuba benze uvavanyo lokuchazwa kwentetho kwintsimi yesandi ngelixa umyeni wakho usegumbini. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kumangaliswa amanqaku ampofu oyifumanayo xa uthetha inkulumo kwiindawo eziqhelekileyo zokuxoxa. Mhlawumbi olu lwazi luya kumkhuthaza ukuba azame nzima ukwenza ubomi bemihla ngemihla kube lula kuwe. "
- Umhambi
"ngexesha ... amantombazana athetha kodwa akazange asebenze ngenxa yabazali bakhe nabazali bakhe abakhulu abangenako ukusayina langauge kunye nam.
Ngaphandle kokuba ndiba khe khethekile kubo, banokuyifunda i-ASL? Ngenye ixesha, mna kunye nentombi yam yokuva ndatshutshisa ixesha elide kuba ucinga ukuba uyazi yonke into ngabantu abazizithulu.
- Umhambi
"Ukuva umfazi wam osisithulu ... Utyhila i-ASL ... Ngoko ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ngathi ukuba siqonde omnye nomnye ngenxa yemeko yokwenza uphawu. Ukufundwa komlomo-okanye enye indlela-engakwazi ukusayina ukwenza ukuba ndizame ukuqonda intetho yakhe (engelula ukuba ndiyonge). Kodwa siyenza kwaye sizame ukulungelelanisa imithintelo yokunxibelelana omnye nomnye kwi-compromise. "
- Umhambi
"Usebenzisa impawu ezincinci kwaye unamathele encinci kakhulu. Upelo lwakhe lubi ... Ndiyathetha kakuhle kwaye ndiyifumene kakuhle, kungekhona i-100% .. Umyeni wam andinakuqondi kakuhle imihla ngemihla. Singahlala njani na? .
Xa ndidiniwe ngephalaphala kumaqela okuva, ndihamba nje okanye ndihlale phantsi ukuya kufunda iincwadi kwaye njalo..Izibonakaliso kubantu abangezithulu, andiyi kunzima imiqondiso..iya kuhlala kumaqela angazithulu. Ndifuna indoda yam isebenzise iziganeko ngokuphindaphindiweyo .. Ngesinye isikhathi akenzi kwaye akwenzayo .... Ndiyakwazi ukuva ezinye ezandleni zangekhohlo..Angayiva amazwi ..
Ingxolo nje ... "
- Umhambi
"I-HOH." Kunzima ukuva iintlobo ezithile zezwi kunye nokusetyenzwa kweqela, nabani na emva kwam.
... kunzima xa elinye iqela liva kakuhle (i-hubby yam) kwaye enye ayifuni. Ndisafuna ukukhumbuza into yokuba akakwazi ukuthetha izinto kum ngasemva, hamba kude nam, fowunela kwelinye igumbi okanye ube nethendiyo okanye umculo ngokukhawuleza. Ndiye ndiphinde ndiphinde ndiphinde ndiyifake. Ndiye ndazisa intsapho yakhe ngezidingo zam zokuva. Nabo baxhasa. Ndiyifumene ukuba nje ngokuba uhamba phambili malunga neemfuno onayo, abaninzi abantu bazimisele ukunceda ... "
- Umhambi
"Umfazi ovayo ... ethandana nendoda engumntu oyisithulu. Ndingumqondiso wokuzimela ngenxa yokuba udadewethu wazalelwa isisithulu, kwaye ndakhula ndisayina. Nangona iqabane lam lithetha kakuhle kwaye likwazi ukuthetha xa lifuna, andiyi kumbuza ukuxhomekeka kuloo ndlela njengendlela yethu yoqhagamshelwano. Kutheni kufuneka umthwalo wokuthintana nomntu oyedwa ebuhlotsheni? Ukuba ukhululekile kwaye ulungele ukuzityhila nge-SL, ngoko ke oko akumele akwenze. ukusayina kwam kungagqibekanga, ndizimisele kakhulu ukuphucula izakhono zam ukuze ndibe nenqanaba loqhagamshelwano ukuba nabani na abantu ababini kufuneka babe nobuhlobo obuphumelelayo. "
- Umhambi
"watshata umntu oneminyaka emi-2.
Ndiqhawule ngokwenene ngoku. Kukho iingxabano ezininzi.
Ndandisoloko ndodwa, ndedwa kwaye ndishiywa ngaphandle kwendoda yangaphambili. Ndandidla ngokunyanisekileyo ngamangqina endixelela ukuba uya kuthatha i-ASL 1 kwiklasi ... undixelele ukuba uhamba kwi-ASL 1 kwiklasi yekholeji yasekuhlaleni, ngoko ndandivuyisa kangangokuba ndandisoloko ndothuka naye kwiklasi ye-ASL 1. Wayengekho eklasini ... watshela uthisha ukuba ndikhangele umyeni wam ... utitshala wandixelela ukuba uyayikhupha iklasi nje emva komhla wokuqala we-ASL 1. Ndandidumala kakhulu kwaye ndibuhlungu kangangokuba waqamba amanga kum.
Ngoko andizange ndixelele umyeni wam wangaphambili ukuba ndifumanise ukuba uyasusa i-ASL 1 kwiklasi ... Ndandidlala nje kummbuza xa ebuya ekhaya esikolweni "njani i-ASL 1 kwiklasi?" Waqhubeka exelela ukuba "kwakunzima kodwa ndiza kuqhubeka ndizama." Andizange ndithethe nto ngethuba elide wandibuza ukuba ndihlawule kwikhosi elandelayo.
Ndamxelela ukuba ndiya kuhlawula loo nto kwaye ndaya kwigqwetha. Ndamtshengisa igama lakhe nge "ASL 2 Class" kodwa kwakuyiphepha lokuqhawula ... Abazali bam babecaphukile kangangokuba ndibe nendoda entsha eNtlanzi! "
- BD
"ubudlelwane nomntu oyisithulu ... waqala ukufunda ukutyikitya unyaka ngaphambi kokuba sihlangane ... Sasicacile omnye nomnye ekuqaleni ukuba ubudlelwane bethu bube nzima ngezinye izizathu ngenxa yokunxibelelana, kodwa ukuba sinokuyisebenzisa kunye nomonde nokuqonda.ndi ndiyakwazi ukuthetha kakuhle usebenzisa i-SL kuphela kodwa akukalula ... intetho yomfana inokufunda kakuhle, kwaye ininzi yabahlobo bethu bevayo kunye nosapho asayineli .... asinakucinga ubuhlobo bethu ngaphandle SL ...
Ukuba sasidla ngaphambi kokuba ndiyazi umqondiso, kwaye ngoko ndandenqwenela ukufunda, oko bekungeyikunyaniseka kwam kwaye kwakungeke kulungile kuye. Ukunxibelelana kunzima kuwo onke amanxulumano, kwaye yonke intsebenziswano idinga umzamo kubantu bobabini. Ulwalamano oluthile "oluxutywe", ukuthetha kuyona mngeni omkhulu kunzima, kwaye ukuba umntu ovayo ukuvuma ukunika umzamo kuthatha ukufunda ukutyikityina, ngoko uyanxinxela umlingane wakhe oyisithulu ukuba enze yonke imisebenzi ...
ukuva ... kunzima ukufunda ukuthetha ngomqondiso, kodwa ndiyakuqonda ukuba kuphazamisayo kwaye kuyothusa umntu osisithulu ukuba afune ukuthetha intetho imini nobusuku. Kulungile ukuba nonke nizama ukudibana phakathi ... Ngokombono wam, ukuba iqabane elivayo livumi ukuba lifunde isibonakaliso sabalingane babo abayizithulu, ngoko banenkinga enkulu kunazo zonke iilwimi ezahlukeneyo. "
- Umhambi
"... ukuva ... ndenzile ingcamango malunga nokuzibuza ukuba kwakunjani ukuva usebenzisa i-cochlear implant ... waya ku-processor yomzimba kwi-model ye-CI eyadala engazange iphinde isetyenzisiwe kwaye wayibamba nje ngee-earphone eziqhelekileyo kwaye ndazinikela zona ... ndabuyiswa yinto endayiva kwiiprogram ezahlukeneyo. Andizange ndiyayiqonda isizathu sokuba wayithiyile xa ndibethela umkhwelo de ndibe nomnxeba weefowuni kwaye wandixelela ukuba ndikhwezele kwaye ndacinga ukuba iindlebe zam ziyaqhuma ...
Andizi malunga nabantu abasentsimi bayamangalisa ngokuthandana / abatyala abavayo, kwaye andiyikhathazeki ngokwenene.
Ukuba ujabulela inkampani, okanye uyamthanda omnye umntu, ngoko konke akufanele kubenze ...
Ndivayo, uthando lobomi bam luyizithulu, kodwa iintliziyo zethu azikwazi ukuthetha ngoko senza okulungileyo! "
- AVisitor
"Ukuthetha umntu oyisithulu ... abaninzi banokuthi bangeniswe njani ukuba senze ntoni ... Kwakunzima ekuqaleni. Ndandisetyenziselwa ukuthetha nabo bonke amantombazana am, kwifowuni, ngoku ndihlala kwi-intanethi ixesha elithile. .
Mhlawumbi sisebenza kakuhle kuba ndiyakwazi ukusayina kakuhle. Ndafunda ixesha elidlulileyo elide kuba umamakazi kunye nomalume bayisithulu. Kwaye ndafunda iikholeji yasekhaya. Xa ndiphuma esikolweni esiphakeme ndiceba ukuba nguToliki. Ngoko, akusiyo yonke inzululwazi / ubudlelwane bokuvalelwa ababhujiswa ... "
- Umhambi
"ukuzingca umntu ovelele, olwalamano oluqinileyo okanye otshatileyo kumntu oyisithulu, ukungafuni ukufunda iS SL ... Uonxibelelwano luyingxenye yento esenzayo ...
... ubudlelwane nomntu ovayo ... nangona ndingenayo kwaye ayifuni okwamanje i-ASL ukuthetha ... (Ndifunda i-ASL kwikholeji, ngaphandle nje kwenzalo, kungekhona yam enkulu) Ndiyifumba kwaye ndidla Amagama ayaxutywa okanye andiyiva into ethile. Ngokuqhelekileyo iindlebe zam ezongezelelweyo kwiimeko ezithile kwaye zifana, njengentsapho yam kunye nabahlobo bamva bahlala bekhona. Kunzima ngamanye amaxesha kwaye kumnandi ngamanye amaxesha. "
- Umhambi
"ukuva kwaye ndandithandana nomntu oyisithulu.kuya ekupheleni kobudlelwane bethu ndifumanisa ukuba akazange athembele nje ngokuba ndive ... ukunxibelelana sisisiseko kwaye ndandidla ngokuba ngathi nguyena kuphela ozama ukulwa nolwalamano ncokola.
- Umhambi
"ukuva omnye ... ungaziqondi ukuba kutheni ubuya kuba nolwalamano ongeke udibanise naye.
Andizange ndibe nomnye umntu othe wathetha ezinye iilwimi ngaphandle kweesiNgesi okanye i-SL kuba andinakukwazi ukudibanisa. Andikho kakuhle kwi-ASL nayiphi na indlela kodwa ininzi ixesha ndiyakwazi ukudibanisa ngaphandle kokuba ndifake yonke into ngaphandle ... andinakuguqula umfana wam kwaye andifuni ukutshintsha. Saqala ukulwa xa saqala ukutshata ngoba andizange ndiyiqonde inkcubeko yesithulu kwaye wayenengxaki kwiinkcubeko zokuva. Kodwa sisebenze kwizinto kwaye kufuneka sihlale sichaza izinto. Kodwa senze u-dang siqiniseke ukuba sisebenze konke oku ngaphandle kokuba sihlanganyele emtshatweni ... "
- Umhambi