Musa ukuvumela imijikelezo yeeNtsholongwane ezingasebenziyo Ukutshabalalisa iZenzo Zakho

Abantu baphatha ingxabano ezininzi iindlela. Ngaphandle kolwalathiso olufanelekileyo, abaninzi abantu baphendukela kwimpendulo yokuguqa ngamadolo kwiimeko ezichasene nazo ezinokunyusa ingxaki. Kwiofisi yezobugqirha, umphathi weofisi okanye abo bakwinqanaba lobunkokheli badinga izakhono eziyimfuneko ukulungiselela ukulungiswa ngempumelelo kwempikiswano.

Izindlela zokunxibelelana ngeengxabano zichonga ukuba ingxabano ayinakuguqulwa okanye abantu abachaphazelekayo kwimpikiswano bafikelela kwisisombululo esisanelisayo. Kubalulekile ukufumanisa iindlela zokungaxhatshaziyo zokungabikho komsebenzi ukunciphisa okanye ukuphelisa iziphumo ezingalunganga xa kukho imbambano kwiofisi yezokwelapha. Imijikelezo engqubuzanayo engqubuzanayo ingakhokelela ekunxibelelaneni okungahambi kakuhle, iziphumo eziyanelisayo zezigulane okanye iindawo ezisebenzayo ezinobungozi zabasebenzi be-ofisi yezobugcisa.

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Ukujongana nokuPhepha

Nangona abanye abantu becinga ukuba kulungile, ukuphepha ingxabano yindlela engasebenzi ngayo yokujongana neengxabano. Ukuphepheka kubangela ukungquzulwano okungaphendulwanga oku kunokukhokelela ekusebenzisaneni okuwonakalisayo.

Ziziphi iimpawu zokuphepha ukulwa?

• Ukusebenzisana okufutshane
• Ukuphepha omnye umntu
• Ukuvakalelwa
• Uvakalelo
• Ukukhazela umntu wesithathu
• Ukuxhomekeke kuncinci kwelinye iqela

Uthini umjikelo wokugwema udibaniso lubonakala ngathi?

1. Ubunakho bokungqubana bukhona kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi ezenza iingxabano ezinokwenzeka ezifana nobuhlobo okanye indawo
2. Isiganeko senzeke ukuba omnye okanye zombini amaqela ayibona njengengxabano
3. Ingxabano kufuneka iqhutywe yinto eyenziwa ngumntu omnye okanye zombini amaqela okanye ngokuthetha ngokubhaliweyo okanye ngokungabonakaliyo kodwa kubantu abaye baphephe ukungquzulana kweengxabano akukaze kuqaliswe. Umntu uya kunika elinye iqela okanye aphephe ukuxabana ngokupheleleyo.
4. Ekubeni ingxabano ayisombululwanga, imiba iyakha kwaye ekugqibeleni iphumela ekungquzululeni kakubi ngenxa yokuba ekugqibeleni umntu uphatha ngendlela engafanelekanga.
5. Ngenxa yokuba ingxabano iphelile kakubi, iqela libona ukuba ingxabano ayimbi kwaye umjikelo uphindwa.

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U khu phiswano

Abantu abangenako ukwesaba ingxabano abayikuphepha kodwa banokuziphatha ngendlela eya kunceda ukunyuka kwimeko yokulwa. Unxibelelwano olukhuphisanayo lwenzeka xa ngalinye iqela lizama ukulawula kunye nokuphuma.

Ziziphi iimpawu zokunxibelelana ngokukhuphisana?

• Ukumema
• Ukuhlaselwa okanye ukuhlaselwa ngabanye
• Ukwenza izenzo ezisongelayo
• Ukuphosa amaqhosha angahambelani nale meko
• Ukuhamba
• Ubundlobongela

Uthini umjikelezo wokunxibelelana ukhuphiswano lubonakala ngathi?

1. Ubunakho bokungqubana bukhona kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi ezenza ingqubuzana enokwenzeka njengokubambisana okanye kwimeko
2. Isiganeko senzeke ukuba omnye okanye zombini amaqela ayibona njengengxabano
3. Ingxabano ibangelwa yinto eyenziwa ngumntu omnye okanye zombini amaqela okanye ngokuthetha ngokuthetha ngomlomo. Iqela eliqalisa ukungquzulwano ngokuqhelekileyo lithatha isimo esiqinileyo nxamnye nelinye iqela.
4. Elinye iqela liphendula kwaye lithatha nesimo esomeleleyo kwaye ingxabano iqinisa.
5. Elinye iqela liphumelela, elinye iqela lilahleka kwaye ngenxa yokuba impi yaphela kakubi, iqela elahlekelwa libona ukulwa kwale nto kungalunganga kwaye umjikelezo uphindwa.

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Ukuziphatha okungenangqondo

Uhlobo lwesithathu lweengxabano ezingasebenzi kakubi. Umntu onokuziphatha okungenabundlobongelayo ongakhange ahlangane ngqo nomnye umntu kwimpikiswano kodwa usebenza emva kweemboniso ukuze ahambe ngendlela.

Ziziphi iimpawu zendlela yokuziphatha engahambelaniyo?

• Ihamba emva komntu okanye iwele intloko
• Zizenza ngathi zihlobo xa zingekho
• Ukubandakanya ekuhlaleni
• Ukubamba into into omnye umntu ayifunayo ade afumane oko bafuna
• Ubonisa umsindo ngokuthe ngqo

Uthini umjikelezo onxibelelwano onobudlova ukhangeleka?

1. Ubunakho bokungqubana bukhona kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi ezenza ingqubuzana enokwenzeka njengokubambisana okanye kwimeko
2. Isiganeko senzeke ukuba omnye okanye zombini amaqela ayibona njengengxabano
3. Ingxabano ibangelwa yinto eyenziwa ngumntu omnye okanye zombini amaqela okanye ngokuthetha ngokuthetha ngomlomo.
4. Esikhundleni sokujongana nomnye umntu, umntu onobudlova usebenzisa iindlela ezinobungozi zokufumana indlela
5. Ukuba izenzo zomntu onobudlova azisebenzisayo, zivakalelwa kukuba olu hlobo lokuziphatha luyamkeleka, iqela elahlekelwa libona ingxabano enzima kwaye umjikelezo uphindaphinda.